did you ever find out someone you know irl had the kink?

[Guest Weight gain schadenfreude]

When I was about 18 I was at the beach with a couple of male friends. A cute girl passed by, thin, pretty face, long hair....and a belly. I immediately noticed her belly but obviously didn't say anything because my friends were "normies". Then one of my friends causally said "Cute tummy".

[Chickenshack]

Had a "friend" in high school who used to always tease me about liking big girls. Like, a lot. Publicly. He'd tell other people about just so they could all laugh about it together. Because high school kids are dicks, idk. But this guy ESPECIALLY would just not let up.

He once told me that he was going to download porn of a fat black woman, label it Heavy Ebony and claim to everyone at school that he'd found it on my hard drive (even though he'd never been to my house). Which, to be fair, is kind of just sociopathic, especially if its only for a laugh.

Anyway, long story short, his first college girlfriend was almost 300 pounds.

Fuck that guy...

 

[Feeder-182]

On 4/25/2022 at 11:53 PM, Chickenshack said:

Had a "friend" in high school who used to always tease me about liking big girls. Like, a lot. Publicly. He'd tell other people about just so they could all laugh about it together. Because high school kids are dicks, idk. But this guy ESPECIALLY would just not let up.

He once told me that he was going to download porn of a fat black woman, label it Heavy Ebony and claim to everyone at school that he'd found it on my hard drive (even though he'd never been to my house). Which, to be fair, is kind of just sociopathic, especially if its only for a laugh.

Anyway, long story short, his first college girlfriend was almost 300 pounds.

Fuck that guy...

 

Sounds like there might of been some self-loathing on his part, dude sounds like such a ass. I get it might be embarrassing to like big girls but there's no need to take it out with your friend who's more open than you about it.

[DarkMoonFlower CLIPS]

My high school boyfriend was secretly a feedee, but he didn't come out and tell me while we were dating. I found out after we broke up when one of our mutual friends, with a slightly horrified and disgusted voice told me "I saw him texting with a girl online... she was pretending to feed him ice cream!"

But thinking back on it, all the signs were there and I should have known. Almost all our dates involved us going out to eat. He'd describe certain foods as "orgasmic" and he was probably 250+ pounds. Nowadays through social media snooping I've found out that he's had weight-loss surgery... but once you have the kink its not going away so easily... 

[skinnyguy112]

Someone I worked with back in the day had put on a some weight and she said she really enjoyed the attention she was getting. She also always would make comments about food and eating, mentioning her clothes getting tighter. Made it very hard for me to keep my mouth shut lol. 

[Guideline2]

Yes, at school, although I never found out for sure.

She always used to wear those bodycon dress kinda things - or at least things that were obviously too tight. She was a well proportioned chubby girl. I often caught her playing with her belly in full view of others, and she used to ask (mostly a close female friend but sometimes others) for belly rubs because she had overeaten. She was not shy about it at all. I wish I had found out for sure. I know I came close to poking her belly a few times but never managed to pluck up the courage. I think her reaction would've been a good gauge. 

[Ruby Addams BBW CLIPS]

I’m lucky with this because I share most of my kinks with my husband and that really is fun when I want to do something special.

[remfan112]

Yes. Found out about a year ago that a girl I know here in NC was into it, and even had a pretty successful YouTube channel to it, but it since got deleted

[Luna Hellborn CLIPS]

I have a suspicion.
My boyfriend's cousin.
He has always had very fat girlfriends (about 150kg) and all his relationships ended after they had gastric bypass...

I've been thinking recently about when, after seeing me, he wrote to my boyfriend asking him if I had gained weight. 😳 

[Jorin85]

I think I have been that ''someone you know'' person to others lol. 

In the crowds of people that I was in growing up with, anything that wasn't part of what could traditionally be classed as heterosexual or vanilla - sexually or romantically in people- was sadly frowned upon and verbally put down at any oppurtunity, especially in moments of ''banter'', and rather loudly - in pubs and social gatherings. 

But in those moments I would always go quiet and think in my mind ''so what? In fact, I think that actually sounds pretty damn cool!''

So I think I must have been one of those ''someone you know'' people on many occassions lol.

I have never met another person in person who I knew or, could tell, if they had any fetishes or kinks of any kind related to this.

If they did, they kept them well hidden, or I just didn't read it in them.

 

[W4E]

I remember a few colleagues were once discussing the various "matey" topics twentysomething males tend to talk about, when from nothing one said 'What do you think of Candice?'. As they envisaged the pear-shaped manager with long sandy hair, double chin and wide arse, cue communal laughter followed by eventual silence. Then came '. . . But she's really fat.' The first speaker, a friend of mine named Jon, replied matter-of-fact, 'Yeah. So what? There's more to admire.' 

This exchange didn't appear to lead to any ribbing or jokes from the others, which, given the nature of the topics of conversation on offer, was a surprise. 

Over the few years we worked together he went on to have a couple of girlfriends of ascending size, not that I thought he had a kink or anything like that. He was a man of taste. Despite being a man of few words there was one memorable social media post he made. He shared a tabloid news story about feedism - the headline was 'Woman Paid to Eat', or something like that. His then-girlfriend, a plump woman from IT, I recall, posted several overexcited comments in reply. 'OMG! Living the dream!!', 'If only I could do that for a living!!!' and words to that effect. A few other friends responded with similar remarks. Jon's reply a few days later was 'Lol! Let's get started then.' 

I couldn't tell, really, whether he was into the scene or not, given he enlisted in the army and fell off the face of the world, and that particular girlfriend went on a 'health kick' a number of years ago, adopted marathon running as part of the corporate thing and got married. But for a brief while it was nice having a colleague who was not totally wedded to the 'stick thin' idea of beauty. 

[GrowingGirl2.0 CLIPS]

I think one of my neighbours is an FA. He said his favourite thing about my body is how my thighs look now that I am bigger. I see the way he looks at me. Apparently he has seen me standing in front of my window in a bikini taking selfies. I didn’t even feel embarrassed or shy when he mentioned that he saw this. Thankfully he doesn’t irritate me. He says he prefers beer to women so just admires from a distance. 

[hatrick199]

There's a girl I know who used to be really fit and dated and is now married to a fit guy, and has absolutely blown up while he's stayed the same size. I figure the odds that it's this are extremely slim they're into this, but it always made me wonder. 

[Fahrong]

Incredibly blessed that by complete coincidence my best friend turned out to also be an FA, less 'feederism' kink perse but still. I had never gotten anything to really hint at it, they always had very little concern for anything weight related but were skinny, but eventually it came out in a trusting conversation between us.

Furthermore I have an aunt I actually worked with for a time who had become absolutely huge while married, I didn't really know her former husband but she told me once in a moment of frustration that if people thought she was fat, her 'replacement' was twice her size, an idea I have a hard time imagining. And if true, it certainly seems a strong implication...

[Aurel]

On 8/22/2022 at 1:37 AM, W4E said:

I remember a few colleagues were once discussing the various "matey" topics twentysomething males tend to talk about, when from nothing one said 'What do you think of Candice?'. As they envisaged the pear-shaped manager with long sandy hair, double chin and wide arse, cue communal laughter followed by eventual silence. Then came '. . . But she's really fat.' The first speaker, a friend of mine named Jon, replied matter-of-fact, 'Yeah. So what? There's more to admire.' 

This exchange didn't appear to lead to any ribbing or jokes from the others, which, given the nature of the topics of conversation on offer, was a surprise. 
 

Nice anecdotal! Candace sounds very attractive, and I find the “but she’s really fat” rather hot  Do you think the initial laughter was straight fab-phobic reaction? Or more a response to suddenly thinking of the manager, the authority figure, in ‘that way?’ 

[Guest Piper Pines]

Guys often ask if they can carry a plate or two for me at Golden Corral and I'm pretty sure the feedism fetish is why that place was invented in the first place!

[W4E]

On 8/29/2022 at 2:14 PM, Aurel said:

Nice anecdotal! Candace sounds very attractive, and I find the “but she’s really fat” rather hot  Do you think the initial laughter was straight fab-phobic reaction? Or more a response to suddenly thinking of the manager, the authority figure, in ‘that way?’ 

Thank you! At the time, I was quite certain it was merely fatphobia, given how narrow-minded my colleagues were about most things. Now, however, I'd like to think that conversation 'converted' a few of my colleagues - simply by, as you say, finding themselves looking for the first time at their manager in 'that way'. One never knows!

[thatguest]

I was catching up for drinks with a few new friends while living abroad several years ago, and one of the girls who I'd met for the first time that night, who was sitting down when I arrived, and for a while as we were all chatting, got up to walk to the bar and get a drink. To this day, she's one of the most extreme pear shaped women I have ever met. While sitting I'd assumed she was average sized, but her bottom half was huge. Like properly fat. As she waddled over to the bar, cellulite covered legs from her thighs down to her massive calves and cankles, jiggling in full view in her short skirt, I couldn't help but stare in awe. The guy next to me remarked that he didn't expect that. I responded, the same, and that I didn't expect she was going to be that hot. That comment definitely took him by surprise, and then he responded that he agreed, and thought she had great legs. By chance, one of my new friends in a new country, was a fellow FA.

A few of us from that group became actual friends, but I never did see that girl again. She didn't really vibe with anyone on the table, which is a shame.

[GoofyBeast]

Unfortunately no...

[My User Name]

I do have a college friend that I'm sure is into it. She was already chubby but after her divorce, she got into burlesque dancing, remarried...and managed to get bigger.

[LaurenLush CLIPS]

Funny story, I dated a guy off and on around when I first entered this Curvage Realm…. I’ve always been curious about this kink but Curvage really ramped it up for me… 

We were really enjoying one another but he never told me about this side of him… it literally just never was brought up so I never pushed it….

Fast forward, I started modeling for Curvage and posting. I kept this from him because I didn’t know what he’d think and was sort of embarrassed at the time to confess this side of me….

While I am at my day job I receive a phone call from him… he seemed hesistant to get out what he wanted to say… and then he just blurted out “Are you Lauren Lush?!”….. my heart dropped instantly.

But reluctantly this is when I found out that he actually enjoyed this kink too and it truly opened out world and communication to so much more! It was pretty crazy and also really cool that he was also a member of this site!

 

I wish more people in our society would just let stuff like this be normalized so we all could enjoy it and people would have to hide what they’re drawn to.

Edited September 21, 2022 by LaurenLush

[Belly worshipper]

I wish I could. I'd actually wouldn't feel alone about it. 

[GrowingGirl2.0 CLIPS]

57 minutes ago, Belly worshipper said:

I wish I could. I'd actually wouldn't feel alone about it. 

How can you feel alone when you are on Curvage? We are all here as well enjoying this kink 

[mbrewster]

As a male FA, I've never had a partner that I've been able to fully disclose my kink with before. I've dated a few heavier women, bbws, but never had the opportunity to fully open up about my feeder fantasies. Something I still hope to find someday!

[mbrewster]

As a male FA, I've never had a partner that I've been able to fully disclose my kink with before. I've dated a few heavier women, bbws, but never had the opportunity to fully open up about my feeder fantasies. Something I still hope to find someday!