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Hey everyone !

I'm in a fairly new relationship and I haven't told him I model for Curvage yet. 

Partially because it's never come up and also because I didn't know how he would react - I don't think he would be mad , maybe just shocked? 

I don't want to keep this from him but I also don't know how to bring it up

Any suggestions? 

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Ask if he likes taking pictures of you and gradually ease him while discerning those parasocial relationships. I don't know if you had the talk about what counts as cheating.

Though your question does give me closure on why so many models can ghost, yeah boyfriend becoming third wheel won't be happy, but apparently his money doesn't cut it so I dial down on things.

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Maybe when you're alone you could "rehearse" telling it to him. Pretend he's in the room and see how it goes. When you're ready to actually tell him, tell him that you want to give him time to process it and that you're still the same you and nothing has changed. IMO if he doesn't approve of it, he's not worth it: someone who loves you should not limit you. Maybe you can also tell him you're willing to make compromises. Also the site doesn't allow nudity, i think that's a huge thing!

Good luck! ❤️

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Ask him if he watches porn.  You have better than 50/50 chances, the answer will be yes.  

Then ask him if he's ever been on sites for bbw/ssbbw...

See how he responds to those questions...

Does he get defensive?  Does he open up? How comfortable is he about the topic?

Depending on how you feel his response is & his comfort level is with his own sexuality, you may find it's easy to mention that you take pictures on here.

Opening the conversation to create space for talking about what you do is probably the bigger challenge than actually saying the words "I model on curvage."  

HTH

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@Luna Hellborn I still haven't been able to bring it up.. last time I saw him was Thanksgiving and I didn't feel like it was the right time

@worldtraveler I will definitely try that! That seems like a good way to test the waters and see his reaction before telling him 

@Maxine Grandé rehearsing is a great idea! I always get flustered and forget what I was going to say so practicing would definitely help! And I agree,  this doesn't change who I am, I'm still the same person and curvage doesn't allow XXX content so it's not that bad 

Thank you everyone for your kind words and advice! It really means a lot to me,  I don't have people in real life I could ask about this 

My goal is to tell him before Christmas 

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6 hours ago, sweetheart_stoner said:

@Luna Hellborn I still haven't been able to bring it up.. last time I saw him was Thanksgiving and I didn't feel like it was the right time

@worldtraveler I will definitely try that! That seems like a good way to test the waters and see his reaction before telling him 

@Maxine Grandé rehearsing is a great idea! I always get flustered and forget what I was going to say so practicing would definitely help! And I agree,  this doesn't change who I am, I'm still the same person and curvage doesn't allow XXX content so it's not that bad 

Thank you everyone for your kind words and advice! It really means a lot to me,  I don't have people in real life I could ask about this 

My goal is to tell him before Christmas 

Sounds good! Also you can write a letter to and read it to him 😊

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I assume you had really good reasons that were behind your decision to become a model here. I’d start with those. In my experience, that’s very helpful in relationships. Then tell him how you currently feel about modeling and what you’d like to go forward. 
 

If he’s like most guys, he won’t hesitate to give you his opinion, so you won’t have to worry about that lol. 

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33 minutes ago, dania201 said:

I assume you had really good reasons that were behind your decision to become a model here. I’d start with those. In my experience, that’s very helpful in relationships.

If she starts by defending herself and sort of proving him wrong before he even uttered his opinion, I can't see how that's going to be helpful. That's like hitting someone in advance before the fight even began.

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On 12/9/2021 at 2:41 PM, Maxine Grandé said:

My goal is to tell him before Christmas 

You still haven't told him? Damn, why bother at this point? I did suggest to be subtle about it. It's your in/decision to make, though I am noting how common it is not to get in this trap myself and let "boyfriend" do the heavy lifting.

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Yes, well, people are afraid to out themselves. Two things are weighed against each other: a) being true and sincere with the other person, b) the relationship lasting. Although I can't see how (b) is ever going to be a valuable thing without (a).

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☆ update☆

I finally worked up the courage last weekend and told him about my modeling. 

I know, It took me forever.  

we were driving and talking, the subject of self esteem came up. I mentioned how I had issues with it in the past but it's improved since I've started modeling. That took him by surprise and he asked where I model. I told him it's not in magazines and it's on Curvage- I explained how it works and there's no nudity, I told him how I originally got into modeling.

  I offered to show him some of my videos but he wasn't too interested. He did say he could see the appeal in watching a beautiful woman belch like a trucker 

he said he doesn't mind lf other guys look at me , its a compliment that he has good taste 😆 

down the road I'm thinking about asking him to help with my videos, we'll see how it goes 🥰 

 

 

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I think if you plan on being in an honest long-term relationship with him and you love him you should be honest with him because everything in the dark ends up coming out into the light at one point or another. It’s better to be honest now then to have him find out and then start thinking the worst of you or possibly thinking you were doing things with other men and what not…. honesty is always the best policy 

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