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Is my GF a feedee? What do I do?


entexx

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Background on me:

I've been into feederism/WG in porn for about 10 years. When I first discovered my fetish I tried to get my girlfriend into at the time, but in retrospect, she was kind of disturbed by it I think. 

In my next long term relationship my gf was very kinky and wanted to know about my kinks so I showed her what I was into. She thought it was weird at first, but actually got into it for a while. She'd eat multiple burgers from Wendy's for lunch and send me photos of her eating them and rubbing her growing belly. She'd chug chocolate syrup while we were having sex. It was a LOT of fun. She put on about 50 lbs and kind of got over it and decided to lose the weight.

After that I dated a few girls who were already fat, so I didn't have to hide the fact that I was into their bodies. A feederism  dynamic never developed, but it was fun nonetheless.

Now, to my current girlfriend. She's of an Iberian background, strikingly beautiful. She's got a dramatic pear shape with slender shoulders but big boobs. Wide hips, huge thighs, calves, PLUMP ass, and is starting to develop a paunch. Her boobs have grown a lot since we started dating about 2 years ago. She's in the F cup range currently. If I had to compare her to a model, her body most resembles Mal Malloy but not as big as Mal is currently. She's also taller, like 5'6". She has the sexiest lower back I've ever seen in my life - venus dimples and that classic shape of the lower back plumping out, curving around to the love handles.

Her eating habits and body image seem to be kind of complicated. She LOVES eating, but she always seems at odds with how big she is. She's currently about 220 lbs; when we met she was probably like 175. I constantly reassure her she's sexy af, and I'm always groping her ass and love handles when we cuddle, which she loves. When I first met her it was the start of covid lockdown so we'd get takeout a lot. I noticed when we'd order the same entree, she would scarf her entire meal down when I was only like 1/3 of the way into mine. I'd rib her about it and she'd say she just hates eating cold food, so she tries to finish it before it cools down. But as she's gotten more comfortable around me she started doing this sexual moaning while she eats. I'll rib her on it and say she's a fat girl at heart because she loves food so much, and she'll just say "I know" and laugh. A few other fat girl tendencies of hers... When she's feeling down she likes to gorge on Domino's. She'll order a large pizza and an order of cheesy bread and devour it all by herself. It's a sight to see. She'll dig in with her hands and get grease and sauce all over her hands and face. One time we were beefing over something and didn't see each other for about a week. Once we made up over text, I went over to her apartment and noticed 2 or 3 trash bags behind her apartment FILLED with domino's boxes. Another habit. She'll occasionally indulge in pints of Ben & Jerry's ice cream. Her tactic for eating it is to melt a pint in the microwave until it's soupy, then she'll scoop out all the chunky filling with a spoon. Once she's finished all the chunky parts, she'll just drink the rest of it, like it's a bowl of cereal. We've had a few meals out where I SWORE she must be a feeder. It's almost like she gets a kick out of eating even more when we're in public. One time we went to this seafood restaurant and each ordered the "fisherman's platter" which is just a medley of every fried thing on the menu. We didn't realize this dish was intended for like 4 people; when the waitress put the platters down on our table we were both like WTF...french fries, onion rings, fried scallops, fried shrimp, fried fish, calamari, clam strips, etc. each with a tub of tartar sauce. We had already eaten a couple appetizers and had a few cocktails at this point. So we were kinda buzzed and just talking. At one point she was like half way through her platter and she was like "I can't believe I ate this much...I need to stop". We ordered another cocktail and were talking more. Next time I looked down her entire platter was cleaned...like every crumb and every drop of tartar sauce. This plate was probably 8,000-10,000 calories, and I'm not exaggerating. I only ate like 1/3 of mine, and I eat a lot. Stunned after noticing she'd cleaned the plate, I looked up at her, and she was kind of starry eyed with her mouth slightly agape, just in a state of drunken euphoria. She pointed out to me that she had to unbutton her jeans. I leaned over to look. Her jeans were unbuttoned with her belly spilling out into her lap. We payed the check, and she told me to walk in front of her closely on the way out because she couldn't button her jeans and her panties were showing a little. At this point I was sporting a boner myself and had to tuck it up into my belt. She waddled out holding her jeans up while I shielded her overflowing belly from view. When we got home she just collapsed down on the couch and I stripped her naked and you can imagine where it went from there. She could barely move but she LOVED it.

So it might seem pretty obvious from these stories that this girl likes eating and is likely even turned on by it, but I can't be so sure. She's gone through periods where she'll try to diet and work out to lose weight. She often makes comments lamenting her weight gain. So she's at least conflicted. Maybe she's a closet feeder, but is too vain to fully embrace it. So recently something happened, which led me to make this post. I've been growing a slight belly myself over the last few months - I'm not into gaining personally, just getting a little out of shape. I've noticed her occasionally rubbing my belly when we're laying together and she'll moan quietly like it turns her on. Then when we're having sex I'll often notice her looking at it and she'll say how sexy my body is. Also, when we've been having sex lately I've been more liberal with my worship of her chubby parts, let's say. If she's riding me I'll squeeze her belly and love handles where I used to focus more on her ass because I didn't want to turn her off, as I thought she was self conscious about those areas. Very recently we were having sex and I was taking her from behind, squeezing and jiggling her ass and hips. I said out loud "I love this fat ass" to which she replied "yeah baby. you want to make it fatter?".  Shocked, all I could get out was "yeah baby". Then she said in a sexy tone "you've been feeding me so good. you want me to get fatter for you?" Now, I was REALLY stunned, so all I could muster was "yeah" and then I came right after that. We cleaned up and just kind of smiled at each other and didn't address the sex convo at all afterward. Since then I've dipped my toe into being a little more obvious about my fetish without addressing it plainly. Like I'll squeeze and caress her belly even when we're not having sex, and when I order takeout I'll order even more than we typically get. We always order a lot and will laugh at how many sets of utensils the restaurant includes; typically like 4. I got a massive sushi order with apps the other night and they had put 6 sets of chopsticks in the bag, which we laughed about. Of course she ended finishing all of it with me eating about 1/3 of it. Then she even wanted dessert after. But then she got the takeout last night and got a carb-free dish to balance the previous night's gorging. 

So that's where we're at. I love this girl a lot, and she's sexy as hell. Her body is ridiculously hot, and increasingly so the more she gains. What should I do at this point?

-continue subtly embracing the kink? feeding her, caressing her, being more forward in it during sex
-talk about it with her outside of sex? like say "hey, that stuff you were saying last week while we were having sex...that really turned me on" and go from there
-option 3? idk

What do you think?

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Honestly sounds a lot like my current situation haha. I mean in my case, I told my girl what I was into right away, and she’s been gravitating towards it more and more, to the point where we’re starting to do deliberate stuffings. 
 

Your girl may not be a feeder per say, but more so someone who might naturally become one. Granted every person is different, but I find being up front about what you’re into is probably the healthiest way to tackle it imo. Better to be honest about what you’re into and feeling than keep it a secret. 

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1 hour ago, Thepenman12 said:

Honestly sounds a lot like my current situation haha. I mean in my case, I told my girl what I was into right away, and she’s been gravitating towards it more and more, to the point where we’re starting to do deliberate stuffings. 
 

Your girl may not be a feeder per say, but more so someone who might naturally become one. Granted every person is different, but I find being up front about what you’re into is probably the healthiest way to tackle it imo. Better to be honest about what you’re into and feeling than keep it a secret. 

Thanks for the input. Yeah, I’ve tried being open about it before but it’s hit or miss. I’m leaning towards that, but it makes me nervous since it’s bitten me in the past. If I tell her I’m into it and she is too, she’s gonna BLOW up, and it’s gonna make my entire life haha. That prospect is like too good to be true with this one. 🤞

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On 9/26/2021 at 3:21 PM, entexx said:

Thanks for the input. Yeah, I’ve tried being open about it before but it’s hit or miss. I’m leaning towards that, but it makes me nervous since it’s bitten me in the past. If I tell her I’m into it and she is too, she’s gonna BLOW up, and it’s gonna make my entire life haha. That prospect is like too good to be true with this one. 🤞

I don't usually comment just a lurker but this post is interesting and intriguing but I feel like she really is into it based on those experiences you stated (or at least wanting to do it but needs an extra push). I'd really love an update whenever possible because this is a really interesting case.

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You're one lucky bastard. 

I think she's definitely into it. I think you have an opportunity that you shouldn't miss, since you both don't exactly know you're into it mutually maybe try to keep being secretive and etc.. like, try saying things during sex about it, but do it as teasing. Slowly make it become more than "oh we're both into feederism, cool". Make her think that she's lucky I guess. And you'll feel lucky too by not actually knowing if she is into it for sure but seeing her slowly make a pig of herself and enjoying it. Eventually you'll reach a point where she begs you to feed her. I'm sure. Live a life of excitement. Good luck

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I think your girlfriend is into feederism but maybe has a guilty conscience from society? Or she might be worried that If she gains more weight you won't find her attractive. Your ideas are great:-

"...continue subtly embracing the kink? feeding her, caressing her, being more forward in it during sex

-talk about it with her outside of sex? like say "hey, that stuff you were saying last week while we were having sex...that really turned me on" and go from ther"

If you keep telling her how much you love her fat and curvy body and how hot she is it might get her to open up to you. Good luck!

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wow, thanks for sharing. i agreed , i followed the same path and ended up deciding that it was just best to date girls who were already at least chubby. as your for situation... personally i would just let it go on. i happen to think that as long as we are living the life, and my lady is happily eating and gaining i do not have to explain her this world of fas and else, i do not have to bring her over to curvage if she is already happy being overweight and not having a problem with putting on some weight and enjoying overeating more often than not. so let it go on, enjoy every bit of it and share it with us! 

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Well guys. No major breakthroughs yet, but there’s some stuff worth sharing. It’s the season of fairs here where we live. There’s a massive annual county fair a couple towns over. I’d never been before and the gf was excited to bring me. She said she really wanted to try fried koolaid. We went right after she got off work, so she’s overdressed for the occasion, but looking quite sexy: a fashionable black top, black leggings with a chain cinched around her hips, a little midriff exposed. She was looking nice and thicc in this outfit. So we get there, do a pass of all the food stands and map out what we want to try. Then, she suggests we do a ride first because she knows she won’t want to do one after she starts eating. We knock that out then it’s time to eat. Now this was an exciting evening. We started with an Italian sausage on a bun just to get some substance in our bellies before what was to come. After that she immediately wanted to check out the stand with novelty fried foods. They didn’t have the fried koolaid but she was still pumped that they had fried Oreos. So I ordered two of those not realizing “one” was a basket containing like 10 of them. These are breaded and deep fried with powdered sugar dumped on top, so it was a pretty heavy amount of food. I ate only one of mine and said I didn’t like it that much.  She proceeded to eat the rest of them, adding more powdered sugar as she went. We didn’t even move from next to the counter where we ordered them. She just stood there and devoured all of them, quietly moaning and getting powdered sugar all over her face and top. I help her brush off powdered sugar from her clothes and tease her a little before we move on.

Now she’s thirsty, so we find our way over to this root beer stand. She gets an extra large cup and goes over to the station where you fill it yourself. It’s a very thick and frothy home style root beer. So she’s pouring it from the tap and chugging the head of foam each time in order to get a solid fill. Later in the evening she actually snuck back to get a refill - this thing had to be 64 oz and she drank probably 3 full cups in total, burping and giggling at how silly it was how much she was indulging.

Now she wanted something salty so we found a gourmet French fry stand. I ordered a large order of loaded fries: topped with nacho cheese, sour cream, and bacon. This plate was ridiculous, just comically oversized and drenched in everything. The sour cream was a solid ball from an ice cream scoop sat on top of the mess. This time we actually sat down to eat it. We each had a fork and started diving in. Now, I’ve mentioned how she’s a very fast eater, so what I did was take a bite, wait, take a bite, wait. She doesn’t want to feel like she’s the only one eating. Suffice it to say, she ended up eating about 80-90% of this monstrosity. We were seated at a picnic table and with her seated and leaning forward, her top is starting to ride up, her love handles bulging out of her leggings, plump Venus dimples on display. Her belly hanging over her pants and poking out between her top and her leggings. This plate is her kind of thing: fried starch loaded with gooey hot cheese and cold sour cream. She’s loving it, taking huge bites, scooping off big chunks from the ball of sour cream with each bite. She LOVES sour cream. At one point the inside of her mouth and teeth were coated with sour cream which I teased her about. She just responded “shut up!” with a smile and kept eating. She’s moaning pretty loudly while eating this because she’s enjoying it so much and she starts getting that glazed look in her eyes. Half way through the plate I stop eating myself and just sit back and watch her. She’s pretty much in her own world right now. It’s almost like being a voyeur to watching a girl masturbate. She has a face of sexual gratification and is just pleasuring herself at this point, mouth smeared with cheese and sour cream. Eyes closed as she’s chewing. 
 

After she finishes the plate she kind of mocks being surprised: “I can’t believe I ate all that…oops”.  We stand up from our table and I notice her midriff is now really popping out and starting to overhang her leggings. After that plate and the massive cup of root beer, she’s getting pretty damn stuffed. We walk around a little bit longer, grazing on free samples, but she’s short of breath and feeling extremely full. So on our way out of the park she sees a stand selling apple cider donuts. She’s shocked to hear I’ve never had them and insists we buy some. We order 3 with the plan of eating them for breakfast the next day, as she’s too full for dessert. It’s a bit of a hike back to the car but we make it, with her playfully complaining the whole way that she’s way too full to walk. Back in the car she changes her mind and suggests we split a donut now so I can try it. I take a bite and say “mmm, yeah that’s really good”. I start driving home while she enjoys the rest of the donut. We chit chat a little bit. 15 minutes later we’re home and I discover she’s eaten all of the donuts secretly while I was driving. I tease her and she just says “oops”. 

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Update. So today I mentioned to my GF that I noticed her boobs have gotten bigger recently and it was turning me on -- they really have :). She responded with a bit of dismay, saying that that just means she's getting fatter all over. I told her I didn't mean it that way, and that she looks great. Then I told her that I thought the idea of her tits and ass getting bigger turned her on, to which she basically repeated her last statement -- she loves having a big ass and tits but if they're getting bigger it just means she's getting fatter all over. Then I finally addressed the dirty talk that had initially got me thinking she might be a closet feedee.

Me: Remember that time we were having sex, and you were dirty talking about your ass getting bigger and getting fatter for me?

Her: Yeah, that was just to make you cum lol

Me: Ohhhh

Her: But did you like it?

Me: Oh yeah, I really did. And I think your body is sexy as hell.

After that we just hugged and moved onto discussing what to order for dinner.

So, at this point, I'm just gonna let it rest. I'll wait for other opportunities to encourage her to indulge more with food, and continue complimenting her body. I'm still not entirely convinced she's NOT a feedee deep down. She may still be trying to read me on it. In fact, she teases me about it all the time. She jokes that I liked that show Hot & Heavy because that's secretly how I am. When she says this I just laugh this off and say "nooooo...." innocently. So either we're both slowly opening up to each other about this mutual fetish OR it's one sided and I just enjoy what I've got: an incredibly sexy and loving woman with an amazing body who's putting on weight in all the right places. I'm not mad at the latter scenario if it ends up being the case long term haha. I think she'll continue to gain naturally, especially if we have kids. But yeah, maybe she's still feeling me out sneakily and this exchange today was me stepping out of the closet a little bit by admitting her dirty talk about getting fatter turned me on. We'll see!

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On 10/19/2021 at 11:54 PM, entexx said:

Update. So today I mentioned to my GF that I noticed her boobs have gotten bigger recently and it was turning me on -- they really have :). She responded with a bit of dismay, saying that that just means she's getting fatter all over. I told her I didn't mean it that way, and that she looks great. Then I told her that I thought the idea of her tits and ass getting bigger turned her on, to which she basically repeated her last statement -- she loves having a big ass and tits but if they're getting bigger it just means she's getting fatter all over. Then I finally addressed the dirty talk that had initially got me thinking she might be a closet feedee.

Me: Remember that time we were having sex, and you were dirty talking about your ass getting bigger and getting fatter for me?

Her: Yeah, that was just to make you cum lol

Me: Ohhhh

Her: But did you like it?

Me: Oh yeah, I really did. And I think your body is sexy as hell.

After that we just hugged and moved onto discussing what to order for dinner.

So, at this point, I'm just gonna let it rest. I'll wait for other opportunities to encourage her to indulge more with food, and continue complimenting her body. I'm still not entirely convinced she's NOT a feedee deep down. She may still be trying to read me on it. In fact, she teases me about it all the time. She jokes that I liked that show Hot & Heavy because that's secretly how I am. When she says this I just laugh this off and say "nooooo...." innocently. So either we're both slowly opening up to each other about this mutual fetish OR it's one sided and I just enjoy what I've got: an incredibly sexy and loving woman with an amazing body who's putting on weight in all the right places. I'm not mad at the latter scenario if it ends up being the case long term haha. I think she'll continue to gain naturally, especially if we have kids. But yeah, maybe she's still feeling me out sneakily and this exchange today was me stepping out of the closet a little bit by admitting her dirty talk about getting fatter turned me on. We'll see!

Hey, lovely post. 
many update, it’s been a while? 

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