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CeliaBBW

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Are there any other models/ content creators out there who maybe feel some confusion in themselves about this whole venture?  I do enjoy other people loving my body, but sometimes I feel a little like whiplash from how the world treats fat women especially.  I feel that sometimes I’m just a fetish now because of this.  Also, I am not a feeder and I’m not trying to gain weight (nothing wrong with those that do), but I just feel like I’m being pressured into trying it or doing videos of that sort at least. I don’t feel personally comfortable with leaning into a stereotype that has treated me so poorly in the past so how does anyone rectify that in themselves?  I hope it makes sense what I’m asking and any insights from a model/ content creator would be helpful.

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I'm certainly not a model or a content creator, however I do want to say I appreciate what you're doing and your honestly about it, if you don't feel okay with making feederism porn then simply don't make it, there are plenty of other woman on the internet that do that already and you don't need to be another face among that crowd,  I'll probably get some some flack for this but I feel bbw porn in general has gotten way too fetish based for it's own good, too much roleplaying, too much focus on feederism and what I call "Gonzo Feederism", and lets not even go into the shit they call the hardcore scene, I think in the long run it makes more sense for you to stick your guns and not enter a market that is beyond oversaturated.

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Thank you.  It's still nice to hear any other perspective in general.  I've also heard of course in general there are plenty of people that don't enjoy/aren't looking for feeder content anyway.  I'm not super worried about it, but I do think I want to talk about it a bit only because I seem to get that question a lot about why I don't do it.  I'd rather have my content be authentic to what I enjoy and have that come through in the photos/videos rather than do something I don't enjoy/don't feel right about simply to make more money.  

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On 8/2/2021 at 7:40 PM, CeliaBBW said:

I don’t feel personally comfortable with leaning into a stereotype that has treated me so poorly in the past so how does anyone rectify that in themselves?  I hope it makes sense what I’m asking and any insights from a model/ content creator would be helpful.

The sad truth is that fatphobia is inherently intertwined with fat fetishism and so that is likely what you are encountering from those who get off on being more fatphobic in their kink. Some people are aware of this and approach safely and others (the majority in my experience) of consumers do not know this and that's where things get weird and painful.

The best way to protect yourself is to set your boundaries and to not let anyone cross them for any reason.  You are still a human being and deserve respect. Those who want specific content or interactions from you that you are not comfortable providing can get them from another creator who is. It's a good thing for the market and all creators, knowing that each bring their own taste and unique offerings to it. If there are things you just don't like doing, or discussions you don't like having with potential buyers, let them know and stick to it. You do not owe them a single thing if they will not treat you respectfully. It's not your fault if they choose to objectify and abuse you. You know how businesses have the right to refuse service? You do too! Those who respect you and the provider-client relationship will be the ones you want to retain and it will make it more enjoyable for everyone.

Figuring out what your boundaries are and sticking to them 100% will definitely help in that regard. The content I produce is erotic fiction, nothing visual, but I experience a lot of that too from people just chatting or when they ask me about my work. Boundaries boundaries boundaries.

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