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So I’ve been into feederism for as long as I can remember and I have been honest with girlfriends in the past sometimes with great success, other times not. I am always honest up front that I am into all sorts of things in the fetish.

My current girlfriend seemed excited when I told her what I liked. She even told me she would watch porn of girls with fat bellies and get turned on.

She is very into fitness but loves to eat. She used to be fat before we met and get her self in very muscular shape. I am attracted to her but I also like using food and doing fat talk in the bed room.

We have some nights where she had let me feed her donuts and stuff her on her cheat days which she told me she loved in the moment. But the next day after she starts to feel bad about herself. 

She at times have had an eating disorder so I know that’s where her anxiety has come from. 
 

Recently  she said didn’t want to do feeding and fat talk anymore and I have respected it.I want her happy above all else, and I am still attracted to her and the sex is fine as is. But I do want to endulge is my fantasy’s sometimes. Although recently because we haven’t it has made me feel bad. I’ve always had a love hate with my fetish, and lately it is a hate because I don’t want to pressure her. That hate has me now thinking about maybe having her just feed me and pretending to fatten me up. In a weird way I guess suppressing my desire to role play with her has made me think about reversing it. 
 

We are currently long distance so when we do sext sometimes she’ll talk about how we  should find a girl with a big belly and feed her and do everything but sex with her. I don’t seem to like that as much because I really only want her.

Anyway it’s getting hard because I do love her but I don’t want to totally shut myself off this way. We have talked about how I feel a bit and next time we see eachother. 

I guess what I am asking is has anyone had experience with a girlfriend who is straight but loves fat women’s bodies. Or a girlfriend who dips there toes in and then out?

At the end of the day my priority is she is happy and healthy. I don’t need her to gain weight and we are capable of having sex without feederism and I enjoy it but if I don’t indulge every once in a while it makes me feel bad. Obviously we can try water bloating or padding but I am not sure that will be good either for her mental health. I love her but I’m curious of the communities opinions. Thanks for listening!
 

 

 

 

 

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  • 3 weeks later...

love/hate fetish is something we have all experienced at some point i guess. at the end i think we can only make it part of us, accept that we are wired that way and that it is unlikely to change in the short term. if the lady doesn't like it, it is really to bad, personally i have gone out of my way and always told my story with my lady being fatter than she currently is. sometimes that has caused negative responses but that is just the truth and the truth always sets you free. with time i started using better words but giving out the same message. but example... curvier, super curvy, instead of fatter and bigger belly and softer rolls. soft curves instead of bigger cellulite dimples and so on , and i think it has worked out well. but bottom line, we cannot deny our preferences, nothing good can come out of it.

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