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Is it possible to push this fetish aside?


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I am a stone cold feeder and have been since my first erection.  I have dated (fucked) a few skinny women BUT the majority of my partners have ranged in sizes from thick to OMG enormous.  Several of my exes have been Feedees and or at least played the part.  I can "manage" an Non-feederism relationship for a while but sooner than later the Feederism urge takes over and I do things (cheat) that cause the Non-feederism relationship to blow sky high of course I am a whore so I can't seem to manage to only to have sex at home (Except I could do it for you Lindsee Foxx if you're listening).  My point here is that the Feederism sickness is stronger than any of my other addictions. I had lunch with a cute little butterball porn actress a few weeks back and she explained to me that she was Pan, I told her about my sickness and told her I envied her.  Her pond is very large with all kinds of fish buy mine is very small and there's only a select few that I want on my hook.

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21 hours ago, billw032991 said:

Her pond is very large with all kinds of fish buy mine is very small and there's only a select few that I want on my hook.

Very true. I recently read an article by one John Money who seemed to be a sexologist guru when he was still around, and he and his colleague write:

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Paraphilia (Greek, para-, altered + -philia, or love beyond the usual):  a condition occurring in men and women of being compulsively responsive to and obligatorily dependent on an unusual and personally or socially unacceptable stimulus, perceived or in the ideation and imagery of fantasy, for optimal initiation and maintenance of sexuoerotic arousal and the facilitation or attainment of orgasm.  Paraphilic imagery may be replayed in fantasy during solo masturbation or intercourse with a partner.  Its antonym is normophilia.

Feedism (adipophilia) is one of the hundreds of paraphilias. Actually 'paraphilia' is a far better term than 'fetish', because it's more general. In the article, they write

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Neither male nor female can decide voluntarily to become a paraphile, nor to become not one.  A paraphilia is not caught by social contagion, e.g., from example or pornography.  Rather it is induced by noxious child-rearing experiences, nonsexual as well as sexual, that pathologize normophilic development.

But the article is, firstly, outdated by two decades and secondly, it states that the science is still hazy on that matter. And the human mind is incredibly flexible, it only has to have the right guidance.

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On 3/25/2021 at 7:15 PM, vpprof said:

That is because, as I have already said in another thread, this fetish is a way of dealing with emotions, not strictly a preference for a particular body type.

Yes, it is possible, through psychotherapy, to attain enough insight to satisfy your emotional needs in a non-fetishistic way. I'm seeing this happening to me, although I'm still not quite where I'd like to be.

Hey... I'm really interested in DM'ing you to discuss your experience with understanding your fetish through psychotherapy
This website doesn't allow me to it says your profile is private

Would you be able to DM me ?

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