When they get TOO big?

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On 12/20/2020 at 11:08 AM, BindsThatTie said:

The only time I had negative thoughts in this vein was last summer when a group of my college buddies organized a hiking trip at this state park about 4hrs away. My wife was convinced she wanted to go. I tried talking her out of it, but she really wanted to see these old acquaintances and she used to love hiking.

Right off the bat, she had to continually stop at gas stations the entire way that made us late and was starting to irritate my friends in the car. Wanting to hit the trail, my friends then conceded to her to eat an early lunch before starting. She gorged on this ridiculous fried chicken meal w/multiple appetizers. Once we got to the gorge, the trail was quite challenging and my wife was struggling within 25min: sweating profusely, can't catch her breath, knees aching, needing to take stops that had us way behind my friends. After about an hour and half my friends noticed how bad she was struggling and called an end to what was supposed to be a nice communal day long hike. Once back at the car, she of course awkwardly brought up eating again.

Every time my wife brought up "are you guys hungry" they responded "not really".The whole day was quite a sh*t show. And two of my buddies hadn't seen her since she gained 100lbs. I think they were just stunned at what a completely different person she was. It left me questioning "gosh, how is she going to be if she gains another 100?"

Did you encourage her to gain weight?

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Just now, BindsThatTie said:

Not initially. I honestly didn't discover I was an FA until after she had gained through a pregnancy. And then she kept on going, and I encouraged and fed her.

Do you really plan on her gaining another 100 lbs?

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On 12/24/2020 at 2:17 PM, BindsThatTie said:

With her lifestyle and eating habits, she's continuing to gain. And with age now, I've noticed the lbs pile on much faster with far less calories compared to 10 years ago. So I really wouldn't be stunned if she puts on another 100 in due time. I've gotten used to her slothfulness now, so hitting 300 would be quite a welcome dream in my book.

It is so sweet/romantic that her gain was what made you realize that you were into that and you kind of discovered it together! It sounds she really enjoys eating so it seems like the perfect combo! After the hiking story hopefully she learned her lesson and maybe next time will just meet everyone after for dinner!