Help Keeping A Feeder

[belly_love]

Hello!

I recently started meeting up with feeders in my area. In the past month or so I’ve met two IRL. 

It was super exciting to finally meet people who shared my fetish and were interested in helping me gain. I really enjoyed spending time with both of them, but both of them ended up ghosting me.

I guess I’m missing something, maybe I’m giving up sex too soon? (The first feeder we had sex after the second date, and the second we had sex after the first). It’s just so hard for me to resist, I always give in.

Maybe I’m not fat enough? (I’m 240 lbs). I thought that was all apart of the gig though? I know I’m not huge but I want to be. 🥺

Any advice on keeping a feeder would be greatly appreciated. I’m tired of wasting my time and getting hurt in the process. 😭 And it doesn’t help that I’m getting ghosted so I don’t even really know what the issue is. 

Much love!

[wdyw]

The main problem in my opinion is that so many guys are turned on by bbws and feederism and are desperately horny about it, however they don't understand that a relationship has to be based on more than just a fetish. Immaturity plays a part - they want the thing that turns them on so much but aren't prepared to be seen publicly with a big girl.

It's a sad truth - you have to choose wisely you have to choose a guy who wants all of you - not just a fat fantasy. He needs to be able to stand in front of friends and family and say I love FAT. 

 I wish you every success - sex between people who share a fetish like ours is (as you know) absolutely electric - better than anything else - so persevere 

he's out there ......

[Guest Likesthefatones]

Its funny because I'm in your area too but I feel like difference being would be I would want to keep seeing you.