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So Mary got doxxed and ** blocked talking about it


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Can we have civil discussion about this? She got doxxed on a čhan site to be clear.

I know some people don’t like her because she talks about her politics, but let’s please not make this a discussion of whether or not you liked ChubbyChiquita. I hate saying this, but I’m going to guess that’s why she was doxxed... which is just so 2020 🤢 isn’t she fucking under the age of 24? Like she’s a college student! Of course she’s fucking hella political.

She didn’t like Curvage at the end, which is fine, and also not the point, and also doesn’t bar this from being discussed here.

Let’s focus on the problem: someone who was an undeniably big figure in the community got doxxed AND a feedism site isn’t letting it be discussed. A feedism site that she supported.

at the very least can we agree that doxxing is wrong and has led to so much fucking bullshit in our community?

update: I guess she’s friends with the admin set of that site, but I still find it to be bullshit ¯\_(ツ)_/¯  their main admin seriously minimized it to “another platform’s drama.”

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I'm saddened and disappointed but not surprised this kind of crap is still going on. 😪

It's not paranoia if they really are out to get you.

Whyyy do so many of our fears have to turn out to be justified after all?

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Pretty sure you got to find out her doxxer/s not too far from around this forum.

 

A minority of Curvage members are infamous for this: you'll always find that one narssisstic sociopathic lurker on a crusade against ** models and mainstream Curvy/Plus Size models growing popular in niche online communities, that one simp crippled by delusions of unrequited love who get fed up, or one of those cyber-Klansmen boiling down on an agenda.

They all got in common two things: a support online team of amateur hackers and the obsessive desire to sabotage and undermine ones's personal lives.

 

Besides, let's admit it: about half of the most active members in this website are none only overtly politically inclined into the total antithesis of what m-ary/ChubbyChiquita stand for but shows tremendous lenghts of virulent hostility and hysteria against anyone who does not befalls on their ideological stance. We all already acknowledge the reasons about how and why I am so well-placed to say what we're talking about and why mary is no longer there. The unbridled increase of competition and market-oriented content, underlying privileges and petty battles between models or between models and mods that we are leaning to act as if it never happened, aren't the only things that fed her up.

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Honestly f*** the people who doxxed her and anyone who approves if it happening. It takes untold bravery to put yourself out there in this community. The amount of privilege some incels have is astounding to me. They will say with their whole chest that they were justified in their action all while being to afraid to put themselves out there to defend their positions. 

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God, I saw this today when I got on tumblr. I don’t know her and I know not everyone is a fan of hers but it is still absolutely appalling that that happened. The entitlement and delusion some feel is beyond my comprehension. I mean, to wreck someone’s life and for what?? Absolutely sickening.

It makes me, and certainly most models, fearful of what could happen to us. 

Doxxing is disgusting. I hope she’s ok. 

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A masquerade ball half-mask used to be enough to keep someone from getting tagged by some program, but not anymore, and some software can use body type and size to augment a search now too, not just whatever facial features can be seen. And everyone makes mistakes. I've posted cell phone photos elsewhere that still had the EXIF geo tags, thinking Tinypic stripped that out, revealing that I once worked for or near Napster, oh noes, or a tech support forum post that .

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The shit with the certain unnamed feedism blog is what just put me over the edge. To have this non-grey face policy, but then go opaque when someone is trying to shed light on doxxing is disgusting. Especially after Mary, who probably had over 30k followers on tumblr, promoted them, said how nice they were. The best part is I am taking a huge risk by saying that bc I made an account there and their admin can dox me if he feels like it ¯\_(ツ)_/ It’s not fair for me to say this when she’s not here to respond (hi, if you’re lurking lmao) but she was pointing some fingers in the end there with curvage not caring about the people that bring it traffic (the competitive market discussion) and she was pointing them at the wrong people. That site did not give a fuck that she got doxxed. Screenshots of the admin minimizing it as “another platform’s drama” are on tumblr. Like a çhan site isnt motherfucking Instagram wtf. It’s also just INSANE to try to compartmentalize our community into the different sites and platforms we use. Just completely discounting that she is a PERSON who MOST PEOPLE who fapped to feedism in the last year or two KNEW. 

not to be a fucking constant cheerleader for curvage but things really are from the top down. @S77 let’s people discuss important, uncomfortable things. Sure they always end up locked, but that’s more of a pause button than anything. Literal moderation. Like “your about to say something stupid and I’m stopping you.” Not “I’m impeding your free speech.”

But my brown nosing aside, like I hope we can all just be a little better than this. There is so much in between, “hm, this person and their content displeases me, and “why don’t I just post their address and family members online! Brilliant!” (No, I don’t know what info was disclosed about her)

 

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48 minutes ago, StirCrazy94545 said:

A masquerade ball half-mask used to be enough to keep someone from getting tagged by some program, but not anymore, and some software can use body type and size to augment a search now too, not just whatever facial features can be seen. And everyone makes mistakes. I've posted cell phone photos elsewhere that still had the EXIF geo tags, thinking Tinypic stripped that out, revealing that I once worked for or near Napster, oh noes, or a tech support forum post that .

I'm a little out of the loop on what happened, but is any of this part of how Mary got doxxed? I'm not sure if you're providing this as some sort of infosec tutorial/reminder, or saying this is how she got doxxed, or what.

My first thought (and I hope I am incorrect) is that this sounded like a "information wants to be free man, you can't get mad at someone doxxing someone these days" excuse/victim-blaming. Which would be hella gross.

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its fuck, she was nice and well meaning which kinda hurt the most. She didn't deserve it(no one deserves to be doxX) I guess this what we get when you have a community of asshats running a dumb-ass site. Not saying Im better than anybody i J/O to this too but jeez somebody clearly ruin or at the very least greatly affected someones personal life here. 

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10 minutes ago, zacherley said:

I'm a little out of the loop on what happened, but is any of this part of how Mary got doxxed? I'm not sure if you're providing this as some sort of infosec tutorial/reminder, or saying this is how she got doxxed, or what.

My first thought (and I hope I am incorrect) is that this sounded like a "information wants to be free man, you can't get mad at someone doxxing someone these days" excuse/victim-blaming. Which would be hella gross.

I had tablet battery issues before I could finish. Old tablet, battery that can't be replaced without a soldering iron and that goes from 50% to gone in sixty seconds, you know the drill. And infosec tutorials go out of date even faster.

What was good enough to avoid doxxing yesterday isn't sufficient today, even if everyone posting content makes absolutely no mistakes whatsoever, but to err is human. It sucks. It shouldn't be happening.

I don't know her or how or when she got doxxed. However it happened, it's wrong and disgusting, and some punk or punks need to be slapped, repeatedly.

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I am sooooo glad I didn’t join that unnamed site. I saw the screenshots you’re referring to. Completely ridiculous. And don’t get me started on the grey face policy. Honestly, with things like this going on, is it any wonder I’m hesitant to show my face? Some people are so fucking vile I swear. I won’t get too into my personal stuff but I’ll say I run a risk with my career and leave it at that.

And while I certainly felt she was wrong to drag Curvage like she did I still wouldn’t wish this on her. You can disagree with someone and not ruin their lives for fuck’s sake.

And to go off what a few others have said, you don’t deserve to get doxxed because you aren’t internet savvy and don’t know how to disguise certain info.

Ugh. This is all such bullshit. 😔

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I was hiding behind the door when they were handing out computer nouse, what does doxed mean ,have never heard of it.I have great admiration for Mary and everyone who posts here , so I was curious to know what doxed is , ,PS thanks for your wonderful content GGG it makes the day that little bit more special.

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5 minutes ago, matt nagle said:

I was hiding behind the door when they were handing out computer nouse, what does doxed mean ,have never heard of it.I have great admiration for Mary and everyone who posts here , so I was curious to know what doxed is , ,PS thanks for your wonderful content GGG it makes the day that little bit more special.

Doxxing is the act of revealing someone’s real identity and personal information location etc. online 

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23 minutes ago, NikkiMaialina said:

I am sooooo glad I didn’t join that unnamed site. I saw the screenshots you’re referring to. Completely ridiculous. And don’t get me started on the grey face policy. Honestly, with things like this going on, is it any wonder I’m hesitant to show my face? Some people are so fucking vile I swear. I won’t get too into my personal stuff but I’ll say I run a risk with my career and leave it at that.

And while I certainly felt she was wrong to drag Curvage like she did I still wouldn’t wish this on her. You can disagree with someone and not ruin their lives for fuck’s sake.

And to go off what a few others have said, you don’t deserve to get doxxed because you aren’t internet savvy and don’t know how to disguise certain info.

Ugh. This is all such bullshit. 😔

Showing just her mouth and below was enough to get one of my favorite bbw gone wild doxxed. I hope she was at least able to salvage her life and academic career, or we could have lost the next Fermat, Erdős, Ramanujan, or whomever just because she had a wild side and made the mistake of getting freaky in department offices or rooms some simp maybe recognized. (I had a bad feeling when I saw some of those.) We may never know now. Nobody deserves this crap, not a wunderkind, not a "nobody," not nobody.

EDIT: Or a butthurt ex just plain recognized her or her bedroom and started dropping hints online instead of going the obvious and overt revenge porn route. It isn't always some angry incel.

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7 minutes ago, goodgirlgrow said:

Say that shit again. 

Should I expand it and make it a keyboard macro? Not a waitress, not a retail clerk, not a teacher, not a maid, ...

Not even a politician, by her butthurty ex husband, via both doxxing her fetish site posts and revenge porn!

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Unfortunately, I don't think this is unique to our community, but as a community we definitely can't tolerate this shit. These communities have started to self-sort over time.

Curvage in the past 15 years I've been here has become a much MUCH more welcoming place to women, and many of those cavalier and often plain spiteful attitudes have been stamped out, grown up, or moved on. There exists, and unfortunately will likely forever exist a safe harbor for these creeps on less moderated, anonymous websites where their behavior isn't just tolerated but enabled.

As long as there are professions, kinks, or hobbies that require discretion, some asshole will be waiting for their moment to doxxx someone.

There's more that needs to be done at a community level, more to be done at anl national and international level, but I'm glad we're talking about it, because at a minimum calling attention to it and educating others on it may be the best tool at our disposal.

I find it very sad that we live in a world, where people think that it is their divine right to acquire whatever they want by any means necessary, and that exploitation of any form is righteous if you're successful at it. That freedom, means the freedom to exploit, manipulate, lie, or cheat. People are fucked up.

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