ozbbwlover87 Posted October 17, 2020 Share Posted October 17, 2020 My wife has been gaining on and off for the last few years. She has had profiles on ff and **. We are now at a point in our lives to start a family. So the last 18 months I’ve encouraged her to eat well and exercise which caused some weight loss. She’s now pregnant and obviously gaining some weight due to that. One part of me wants to encourage her to gain as much as possible during the pregnancy the other part says to encourage eating well and exercise as much as possible. I’d love to hear what you guys would do in this situation. Pancakes 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
extra_m13 Posted October 18, 2020 Share Posted October 18, 2020 in my situation? numbers matter a bit here, if the lady is hovering a reasonable weight and without known health scares then i would certainly encourage her to gain and to politely remember her to do some walking at least. but gaining for sure. now if we are talking about a 600+ lady with some known issues well, then the perspective and the action plan may be different for sure. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dania201 Posted October 19, 2020 Share Posted October 19, 2020 Simple: what does she want? 🤷🏻♀️ NocturnalDevotion and LikesThemLarge 1 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest high Posted October 20, 2020 Share Posted October 20, 2020 The health of the third person in this situation is imperative. Let her and the baby have a healthy pregnancy and then you can go full throttle after. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Pancakes Posted October 23, 2020 Share Posted October 23, 2020 Good on you for recognizing the her health over your sex life. It's hard, but clearly you care. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bellyluvr Posted December 5, 2020 Share Posted December 5, 2020 Pregnancy is a beautiful thing, and a natural time for weight gain. Let it be just that, natural. A woman's appetite will increase to take in the extra nutrients to sustain a healthy pregnancy. She will gain weight wether you encourage her to or not, so I wouldn't push it. After the pregnancy is when you can really encourage her to pack on the pounds. She'll already be thicker from the pregnancy, and she'll be used to eating more. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BindsThatTie Posted December 21, 2020 Share Posted December 21, 2020 Hard to make any judgement on your concern without knowing her current weight and health diagnosis. Is she near the threshold of a high-risk pregnancy, dealing with blood pressure, cholesterol? If not, I would have her enjoy and pack on as much as she makes happen - monitor accordingly at her checkups. Doctors aren't naive; they're aware women already obese generally gain more weight during the pregnancies and keep a close tab on it. lalt 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest loradayton Posted December 25, 2020 Share Posted December 25, 2020 I honestly wonder how this is even a discussion. Your wife is pregnant and the point of that is to create and raise a human being. You need to be talking to her OB first. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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