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Are male fat-admirers primarily Incels?


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On 10/12/2023 at 4:20 PM, Devi Thikk said:

Ok this is a little all over the place but here it goes

I think the "simp" like behavior mentioned in the first post isn't at all unique to this community. As far as I know girls all across the board and on all platforms deal with guys like that. 

I have met several extremely handsome and/or wealthy guys that I would think could get any woman they want but they are my biggest spenders and fans. What I usually hear from those men is that it's not that they have a problem getting girls. It's that they have a problem getting fat girls that love their bodies, embrace their sexuality and even harder getting ones that are specifically into the kink. I've had a couple people tell me that even if they have been or currently are with beautiful fat women that they still go online to satisfy their kinks. The men find their fat partners attractive but the women hate the fact that they are fat, so the guys feel guilty about it. 

If anything the men aren't into fat girl porn because fat girls are easier to get, it's because a beautiful, confident fat girl is so hard to get. There aren't enough of us to go around lol since women are brainwashed from birth to think if we aren't skinny that we aren't worthy. 

As far as it being easier to date fat girls... I know I am not any easier to date than when I was skinny and fit lol. It seems like that implies that if a woman is fat she has to lower her standards. Maybe that's not what you meant though. My standards have not lowered in any way. In fact I think my standards have gone up since I was skinny (I don't think that it has to do with my weight though, I think it's because as I've gotten older I am more confident in general). Since I've gained weight I haven't had any shortage of men that are attracted to me. 

All of the FAs I've talked to aren't into fat girls because they can't get skinny girls. They have been in either one of two types. Either they have been attracted to fat women their whole lives or else they had only gone out with thin women and once they were finally with a fat woman they realized they loved it. 

I don't know if it's true that "if you had your own" fat girl that you wouldn't want to consume fat porn. I think a lot of people watch porn regardless if they are in a sexually satisfying relationship or not. I do. 😆 I will say I watch a lot less if I am in a relationship and having sex regularly. I think everyone is different though and some people just have a higher sex drive than others. 

I just had another thought. What if attractive men are more likely to be lurkers? They might not want to be open about the fact that they like bigger women because of the social stigma. You would not believe the amount of literal body builders and models (whose profiles I've made sure are real) that hit me up on Instagram but don't actually follow me. I've looked at their profiles and the girls they follow and associate with publicly are typical of what you would expect. I think the reason they don't publicly follow me or comment is because they don't want anyone knowing that they like fat girls because of the stigma. 

Anyway to sum it up I guess. There are tons of "simps" and "incels" in any porn community. There are tons of 10s that like fat girls too. I don't think how attractive a man is necessarily impacts the type of porn he likes. I know this was rambling so I'll be happy to clarify anything or take any feedback. 

This right here. Described me to the T throughout my journey with the kink, dating, etc. I’ve dated some very attractive fat girls but they weren’t into the kink, which isn’t necessarily a big thing for me; and then to top it off they all have had self-image issues. Which sucks because it seems like no matter what I would do, they just couldn’t believe I was actually attracted to them, and into the fact that they were big girls. It even came up once in the middle of sex lol I kid you not. I’m like “I’m literally rock hard and having sex with you.” 😅😂 very frustrating. It took me a long time to be comfortable with myself and liking fat girls, in all honestly I’ve really only been open about it the last few years. Like Ms.Thikk here said, I think that came with age and more confidence and just realizing I care more about getting what I want in a partner and being happy, than what others think. 

TLDR; I’ve had plenty of conventionally beautiful girls as well as beautiful fat girls-I like fat girls more and I am definitely no Incel 😂

 

Ive yet to get with one into the kink yet though! 👀 one day…a boy can dream 🤤🙏🏼

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Odd discussion to me, I’ve always imagined curvage (the only windows into our preferences I use), full of guys that are having sex with big beautiful women regularly, and come on here to have a look at similar girls. Not sure why some guys would come on here if they didn’t enjoy sex with bigger girls in real life.

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