BMI numbers seem unrealistically low, as to what's overweight, obese etc !

[allgrownup]

180-190 for a 5'7 woman is a normal weight. That's what I find. Those low numbers they promote? Unreal. When my wife was 185 she already had a face where you think "are you alright? are you ill?"

It's sad that generations of girls keep growing up with the thin ideal, even starting to diet before they hit puberty. Insane.

If she can't hold and lift her belly with both hands, she's not done yet.