Why are girls so sensitive about their lower stomach?

[FatadmirerDoug]

This is a great thread / subject  , thanks for creating the thread Phatcat.

 

I have much to say on this subject, a woman's  fat lower tummy  is my favorite body part and has always been so, since I hit puberty !

It's such a tease when a girl won't let you touch the thing you're most attracted to, eh !

 

The bestest chubby female is the kind that will sit in your lap, my arms will instinctively  become wrapped around  her tummy and I hope she's wearing something soft like sweatpants instead of jeans, next my hands will work my way under her shirt and check out those sexy rolls, if the gal allows her FUBA area to be massaged , enjoyed, and played with... Then breasts, (__*__), and more are a given !

 

Many more thoughts to follow, I just don't like to put too much in a single post !

[FatadmirerDoug]

An overweiht, obese woman has no need whatsoever to hide her flabby tummy !

Forums like this and others are full of people of both sexes that have a fetish for fat  people of both sexes, even if they're normal weight !

Technically most of us are pyschologically classified as 

Alvinolagmaniacs !

Don't worry about it, you're not mentally ill, many people of both sexes like fat rolls on their partner/ lover

 

Fetishes can run really weird, some guys want to suck toes most aren't into feet, like me !

[FatadmirerDoug]

I worded that badly, sounds like I'm into feet, not so at all ! I do especially like belly buttons and will gladly lick the lint out of a fat girl's navel !

 

I just don't see why a woman would even much care what her waistline measures or what the scale reads these days  !

 

Most women are at least 25 lbs overweight, same for men, well past 50 %,Imo  !

A 30 BMI just looks average, even almost thin to me !

There are tons of men that are just as fat as you and even fit guys that like a soft lady !

 

The one look I don't like is a fat gal with tiny breasts !

If my gal is gonna be fat, then a nice rack needs to go along with the package !

[FatadmirerDoug]

I, apologise if I double post some ideas !, Lots of notes and stuff why having a belly that now that is the kink so many of us have.,l Love everybody here, I'm not gay or bi or anything, but it is somehow almost cool to accidentally stumble upon a dude with a gut  for comparison purposes. 

 

I'd post mine gladly but have given up after about 12 years of trying to figure out how to post a photo !

[FatadmirerDoug]

58 minutes ago, Joliat said:

To answer the OP's question, I think gals are especially sensitive about their bellies because that's where fat is most obvious in the mirror.

Big boobs? No problem, obviously. Big ass? Maybe less of a problem in this era of big butts being considered desirable, but it's also true that you have to make a special effort to see your own ass 😃 And if you don't care for your ass, it's easy to ignore it for that reason. Arms? Probably not great but at least arms aren't generally considered sexy, so fat arms may not seem like a deal-breaker. Flaring hips or fat thighs? Obviously an 'issue' for fat-phobic ladies, but they're still below the torso and therefore easier to ignore than a belly, which bulges right out in front of you and is quite obvious even without a full-length mirror.

So I think ladies are especially sensitive to their tummies because tummies are an especially obvious body part when it comes to self-observation.

Although my personal BBW ideal is hourglass shaped, I've become more and more of a belly enthusiast as my wife's has gotten fatter and fatter over the years. Caressing her huge belly is as close to heaven as I get on this earth. 

One question: do non-FAs love bellies too? (I mean thin bellies, obviously). That is, is the belly in general considered a strongly erotic part of the female form? Do non-FAs like to give belly rubs too, say? The tummy obviously gets a lot of attention in FA circles but it's hard to know whether this is mostly specific to us.

 I believe there are plenty of women, both fat and thin that are quite attracted to my large flabby belly !

I like to show it off a bit, in fact !, Almost an exhibitionist, in fact

 

I gladly will take off my shirt at the beach and let it hang out !

I'm about 6' tall, 345 lbs, 58 waist, almost always wear sweatpants, a 4x t- shirt fits me properly !

When I go to Walmart or most other stores, I like to wear my old 2X shirts that,have an "accidental" tendancy to rise up andshow my vbo and  likely turn on some women ( my target group), many women likely consider it gross ?

It also likely attracts attention from gay men as well ?

 

I like to show my belly off, I've considered buying some 4X half shirts to show off the flabby tummy.

 

 

[FatadmirerDoug]

Mainstream women are so brainwashed about going to extreme lenghts to weigh like 125 and have a 23" waistline, when most men have no problem with their GF, or wife being fat !

At my 6' and 345 lbs, and 46.8 BMI..., My proper weoght range is 136-184, ( was maybe last 184 in the 9th grade ?), So I'm 151 lbs overweight, and my waistline should be 36-40 inches.

 

My female equivalent 5'5" female with a 46.6 BMI would weigh in at 280, when 111-150 is considered normal !, So she's 130 lbs overweight !

I look forward to seeing my fat female doctor next week  !, She can feel ,pinch, measure  with her caliper things, all she wants and it's like just like foreplay to me  !

This chick is HOT, about 45, married, and not much slimmer than me !

Perfect fit for me !

 

[FatadmirerDoug]

Flabby tummies rule !

[FatadmirerDoug]

I'd like to make it a law that any woman under the age of 65, with a BMI greater than 24.9 ( overweight/obese) must wear low waisted  hot pants that expose at least  3 inches of her belly below the navel and must wear some minimal type of top so as her full stomach is in plain view to everyone in public at places like Walmart, grocery stores, malls, etc.

She may wear a coat in the winter but must take it off once indoors

Furthermore any man would have the right to feel her belly and Luvvies at will.

The same for an overweight man, he has to wear shorts that expose his lower belly and something like a half shirt or belly shirt or whatever you call it and any total stranger woman can come up and start feeling up your fat rolls and lovehandles which I like to call Luvvies.

I don't think most guys would mind at all, but I think most plump women would be appalled by this law, as they tend to try to hide their belly flab and often don't even want their lovers to even touch their bellies. This should absolutely apply at least at Walmart, if not universally.

Any woman trying to lose weight should try this self fat shaming technique to motivate herself to lose weight, just always show your fat tummy in public, if you run into a co-worker, , neighbor, friend, etc. And you have your fat gut on display the embarrassment factor is even greater to motivate you to lose those Luvvies !

Personally I prefer the flabby woman and wish more gals would show off their flab and encourage you to feel it freely !

[FatadmirerDoug]

On 1/21/2020 at 10:48 PM, gggg said:

Honestly, no idea why most girls seem to treat their lower stomach as protected territory that's so much worse than their upper tummy.  Personally, I thank god for crop tops, because (at least the way my fiancée tends to wear them) they expose that sweet lower stomach bulge with every movement - and still look stylish!

She looks just fine, not what I'd call fat by any means ! I'm sure when she's standing you probably can't even pinch an inch of flab her tummy, I'm sure she'd look just fine in a bikini , or naked !

She's probably slimmer than most of the girls she went to school with, in fact ! I'd guess her weight at 165, perhaps technically 20-25 lbs overweight ? She could easily lose that starter belly and have that flat,firm, tight tummy so many women covet or gain 50-90 lbs and still be just as sexy, even more so ! I think you'll see her slowly gain 2-5 lbs a year as she's under no pressure from you to be slender and I'm sure would have no problem with more of her to love, she's not close to being fat. It's great that she is willing to show off her belly ! Does she mind when you feel/ massage that sexy area ?

[FatadmirerDoug]

A little bit of a pooched out lower tummy in particular is extremely common and it's actually rare to not have at least a bit of a pooch.

It's preferred by many men, especially here and at other similar sites. A woman can easily find a lover if overweight/ obese, no need to be slim unless you want to be a tight tummy/ body sort. 50-100 lbs overweight is desired by many and not enough for many dudes here.

There is no problem for a woman finding a man when she's got a significant gut