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What is the best way to get my wife to understand I like bigger women? She is about 250 but I’d like her to gain some more weight. I don’t wanna be pushy 

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Be open about your fetish. She might freak out about it at first, but she may come around. Seems to be working with my significant other though she hasn’t intentionally started gaining weight yet. 

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a lot of things to say about that question. first of all, 250 is very big in the normal world, congrats for you, first of all i would focus on make her feel sexy and happy and make her not to think about losing weight. that may be the first step. usually if she is that big there is a chance that she has fat habits to put in a way. enhance and support that in a quiet way and the weight will likely come. and then repeat. it is my thinking that a lady or a person doesn't just become a ssbbw, it is  process and a rare process in which you have to accept and like so many changes that your body will experience. and yeah in a kind a polite way i think you should be open about your preferences, that is a must if you consider your relationship serious enough which it looks to my that way

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52 minutes ago, extra_m13 said:

a lot of things to say about that question. first of all, 250 is very big in the normal world, congrats for you, first of all i would focus on make her feel sexy and happy and make her not to think about losing weight. that may be the first step. usually if she is that big there is a chance that she has fat habits to put in a way. enhance and support that in a quiet way and the weight will likely come. and then repeat. it is my thinking that a lady or a person doesn't just become a ssbbw, it is  process and a rare process in which you have to accept and like so many changes that your body will experience. and yeah in a kind a polite way i think you should be open about your preferences, that is a must if you consider your relationship serious enough which it looks to my that way

Thank you so much. She knows I like bigger women but she doesn’t know exactly how big 

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2 hours ago, ssbbwlove said:

Be open about your fetish. She might freak out about it at first, but she may come around. Seems to be working with my significant other though she hasn’t intentionally started gaining weight yet. 

How did you go about telling your significant other your preferences?

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Early on, she asked about what porn preferences I had and I answered honestly. It’s an odd question and one not all women ask. I’ve also gone more in depth about my preferences in what we call ”honesty hour” when we both just talk about things we want to get off our chests. Just don’t be afraid to have that difficult conversation because otherwise, there’s no way she could know. 

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At that point, you need to respect her. It sucks, but not everyone is super accepting of our fetish. Maybe she’ll take time to get open to it or maybe she’ll never like the idea. Hope for the best but prepare for the worst. 

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54 minutes ago, ssbbwlove said:

At that point, you need to respect her. It sucks, but not everyone is super accepting of our fetish. Maybe she’ll take time to get open to it or maybe she’ll never like the idea. Hope for the best but prepare for the worst. 

I will definitely keep y’all posted! hope she is accepting of what I have to tell her! Thank you for all the help.

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Update: So I still haven’t worked up the nerves to tell her I want her to gain weight but she is eating like crazy. I bought a brand new thing of Oreos two days ago and I get in the pantry and they are completely gone! I’ve been trying to keep her favorite snacks here at the house and not discourage her when we go out to eat and I think it is working!!!

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That’s the way you should handle it until you have the courage to tell her. Make it easy for her to gain and make her feel good about herself especially when she is eating a lot. Definitely keep those Oreos stocked; if she’ll clear a package, she’ll do it again. 

I still highly encourage you to open up about it at some point. It’s good to have that honesty in a relationship and she might be open to gaining if she knew how much you like it. 

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Making her feel confident is the hardest thing. I tell her all the time how beautiful she is also last night I told her that I would think she was beautiful if she was a 100lbs heavier and she just rolled her eyes so she is hard to read sometimes .

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Update- So my sister is getting married in April and my wife is in the wedding so she thinks she has to lose weight to be in the wedding! I don’t know what to do we have been making progress with everything so far until this came up

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On 12/7/2019 at 1:57 AM, Robert572 said:

Update- So my sister is getting married in April and my wife is in the wedding so she thinks she has to lose weight to be in the wedding! I don’t know what to do we have been making progress with everything so far until this came up

If there's someone fatter than her in the party, you could always remind her of that.

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So my wife has told me today that she is ok with being bigger! Now just gotta get her gaining and all will be well. Also we went shopping today and she ripped her XL leggings I thought she would be upset about it but she just shrugged her shoulders and say guess I’ll have to go up a size!

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On 12/15/2019 at 9:14 PM, Robert572 said:

So my wife has told me today that she is ok with being bigger! Now just gotta get her gaining and all will be well. Also we went shopping today and she ripped her XL leggings I thought she would be upset about it but she just shrugged her shoulders and say guess I’ll have to go up a size!

At 250, she is already obese, and it sounds as though she loves eating and overeating to begin with. My guess is that all you need to do is enable her natural inclinations and she'll pack on the pounds. 

 

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6 hours ago, Joliat said:

At 250, she is already obese, and it sounds as though she loves eating and overeating to begin with. My guess is that all you need to do is enable her natural inclinations and she'll pack on the pounds. 

 

O she has been going crazy with food here lately. She gets up in the middle of the night and snacks every single night and I’m loving it. I’m anxious to see how much she gains over the holidays coming up!

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On 12/18/2019 at 7:19 PM, Robert572 said:

O she has been going crazy with food here lately. She gets up in the middle of the night and snacks every single night and I’m loving it. I’m anxious to see how much she gains over the holidays coming up!

Wow! My advice is just sit back, discreetly enable while praising her looks to high heaven, and enjoy. 

I remember when my lady started eating toast with butter around 5 PM to 'tide her over' until dinner, LOL. Nothing sexier than a gal obviously making herself fatter.

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7 hours ago, Joliat said:

Wow! My advice is just sit back, discreetly enable while praising her looks to high heaven, and enjoy. 

I remember when my lady started eating toast with butter around 5 PM to 'tide her over' until dinner, LOL. Nothing sexier than a gal obviously making herself fatter.

That’s my plan I’ve been making hints about how much I love her growing body and I think it’s working but she still gets discouraged sometimes like when she gets to big for some of her clothes but I’m going to keep enabling her snacking for sure!

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Like when she ripped her xl leggings, you can suggest 2xl. When she says"I'm not that size", you can tell her "just think about all the wonderful food you can have to fill it out".  I don't know if you can joke with her that way yet

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13 hours ago, high said:

Like when she ripped her xl leggings, you can suggest 2xl. When she says"I'm not that size", you can tell her "just think about all the wonderful food you can have to fill it out".  I don't know if you can joke with her that way yet

I wish I could joke with her like that! She did rip another pair of leggings today so maybe she’ll go up a size and the way she is eating she’ll fill them out in no time. I’ve been keeping all her favorite snacks at the house 

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So here lately I’ve been making subtle hints at my wife about her growing body but she is not realizing that I like that she has gained weight. I’ll rub her belly which she does like but I just feel like I can’t get it through her head that I want her to get bigger. Any suggestions on how to get her to understand that it’s ok that she is a bigger woman and I love her curves

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