bellyluvr Posted September 13, 2021 Author Share Posted September 13, 2021 I've hate to even say this but in the past I've always wished my wife had a bigger butt. She's always been fairly shapely back there but not very big. I absolutely love that her belly seems to have grown the most, because honestly a big fat belly turns me on more than anything else. A big booty has always been a close second to a nice fat belly as a major turn on in my book, and after squeezing my wife's butt this evening I've decided that some weight has definitely settled in those plump cheeks. I'm pretty sure that her current weight is going to be her maximum for at least a little while. She's mentioned quite a few times recently how she's getting too fat, needs to lose weight, her feet hurt because she's overweight etc. I'm not entirely convinced she's going to go on a full blown diet or anything, but I think she realizes that her eating habits have been causing a steady gain and she seems determined to put a stop to any further gaining. That said, it'll be interesting to see where the weight settles now that its already there. I'm thinking at least some of it will go to her butt. ronnie17de and NikeLove1986 1 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bellyluvr Posted September 16, 2021 Author Share Posted September 16, 2021 I've got a bit of a dilemma here: in an effort to help my wife appreciate her own body a little bit more, I decided I was going to order her some new panties from Victoria's secret. I brought up the subject and she says she needs a new bra. So I'm like ok, pick something out and then give me a general idea of what kind of panties you'd wear. She looked and said the "cheeky" style was what she wanted. She didn't say anything else, just told me to pick some. I think most guys would like to be given free reign over what is going to be stretched over their wife's behind, but I'm aware enough that there could be repercussions if I don't choose wisely. The number one issue is size. Since I didn't want to ask her what size she wanted me to order, I took a peek in our dresser to see if I could figure out the size of the ones she's been wearing lately. Let's just say I wasn't very successful. I found some that were XL, most were L and a few M ones that I don't think I've ever seen her wear. If I split the difference, order them in size large, and they don't fit or they fit too snugly she either won't wear them or she'll say "oh my God I've gotten so fat I can't fit in these panties and feel bad. If I go ahead and order everything in XL and she notices the size, she could still be disappointed that she's gotten fat enough to fill out the XL size. The plus side to the XL is that if she does put on more weight she's got a little room to grow, especially since she likes to try to tuck her tummy into the front of her panties. The other less important issue is the style. When we met, thongs and g strings were her go-to. I don't think I ever saw her wear anything else. I guess it was around the time she got pregnant that she ended up buying a cheap package of breifs/bikinis whatever you call them and started exclusively wearing those. For awhile she'd slip on a thong on days when she knew we were going out together and the evening would most likely end with sex. She hasn't done that in a long time, which tells me they probably don't fit anymore. Most of her thongs are size L. I miss seeing her in thongs honestly. What should I do here guys? Did I set myself up for failure here? Did I venture into a territory that I shouldn't have in an attempt to make my wife feel sexy? I mean as her husband I feel like its my job to make her feel like the most beautiful woman in the world; and to me she already is. NikeLove1986, lalt and ronnie17de 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Curvage Model Thepiggyprincess CLIPS Posted September 16, 2021 Curvage Model Share Posted September 16, 2021 I would buy her both. Some that you know that she would like and some for your sexy nights out. Good luck! bellyluvr and FedericoBigLover 1 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bellyluvr Posted September 26, 2021 Author Share Posted September 26, 2021 My wife has approximately 4 pairs of jeans that she wears on a regular basis, and 3 of them are exactly the same style. One is a different brand and is slightly tighter than the others and really squeezes her butt(no surprise those are my favorite). Otherwise they all fit about the same, so her overall appearance on any given day really is determined by the shirt she chooses to wear. Some are looser fitting than others, some are longer than others. There is one particular shirt that she wears occasionally that is pretty tight these days and frequently shows a little belly out the bottom. She happened to be wearing that shirt tonight and she stuffed her little tummy veeeeery full at dinner. She got up from the table and her shirt had ridden up about 3 inches on her bloated stomach. I asked her if she was going back for more and she just patted the top of her bulging belly and said "oooh no, this belly's full". Little things like that are just so damn hot. lalt, goobel, Lake Terror and 4 others 3 4 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bellyluvr Posted September 26, 2021 Author Share Posted September 26, 2021 Little update on the underwear I ordered for my wife: first of all I just broke down and asked her what size she wanted, and she said large. So everything was ordered in size L. They showed up and she finally got around to trying everything on this morning. I'm a pretty big fan of the Victoria's Secret "cheeky" style panties. They show quite a bit of booty which is perfect for women with round cheeks like my wife. Might not be as flattering on women with square shaped butts. The other thing that surprised me was the tightness. She was insistent that an XL would be too big on her and I shouldn't order that, but I have to say I think my wife's booty must be on the large end of the large size these days 😅. She stretched those panties over her ass and she looks deliciously plump and round with just the right amount of jiggle(which is a lot lol). ronnie17de, lalt, Upthendown2 and 3 others 3 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bellyluvr Posted October 15, 2021 Author Share Posted October 15, 2021 We went out this evening with some of my wife's extended family to celebrate her cousins birthday. Her cousin always chooses Golden Corral, which none of us really care for. You pay over $20 each to eat very mediocre food. But hey, we only do it once a year. The only good thing is that my wife is always determined to get her $20 worth. Tonight she had 2 steaks, mashed potatoes with gravy, some baked beans, some ** roast, a yeast roll, and a few other sides I think. She finally got a couple dessert items and munched on them with her hand on top of her belly. She eventually stood up and said it was time for us to leave, she couldn't eat any more(if we had the time I would have tried to convince her to stay a little longer, because I know she could have fit more in that plump little belly). I count any time that I can get her to really fill up as a win. She's just not the type that eats huge amounts of food regularly, so I figure the times that she does are good for her figure. Hopefully tonight's over indulgence will stretch out her stomach a little so that tomorrow she has to eat a big lunch to satisfy herself. I know if I could get her to eat at the Chinese buffet by her work every single day for a month she'd put on 20 pounds. The way I've seen her stuff herself there is crazy. She literally walks out looking and rubbing her belly like she's pregnant. NikeLove1986, maybejames, fatowl and 4 others 5 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
gggg Posted October 18, 2021 Share Posted October 18, 2021 On 8/31/2021 at 12:00 AM, bellyluvr said: Anyone ever wake up before their wife/ girlfriend and she's sleeping on her side with her belly completely out in the open? I’ll do you one better, this is my fiancée passed out on a couch at a party a few years back. It was the the first year she had really started getting a belly at college and wasn’t rail-thin anymore, so it attracted some pretty surprised glances from her high school friends who hadn’t noticed it before. BassBoostedRaycons, empee, Argle-Bargle and 8 others 2 1 8 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
cbtaa Posted October 18, 2021 Share Posted October 18, 2021 4 hours ago, gggg said: I’ll do you one better, this is my fiancée passed out on a couch at a party a few years back. It was the the first year she had really started getting a belly at college and wasn’t rail-thin anymore, so it attracted some pretty surprised glances from her high school friends who hadn’t noticed it before. Is she still gaining? Miss your update thread. One of the best things on this site. kradouk and Eva 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bellyluvr Posted October 23, 2021 Author Share Posted October 23, 2021 For the first time in awhile I looked at my wife and had to ask myself if she'd lost weight. For the past 2 years or so she's just been steadily plumping up little by little, mostly in 2020 but certainly some earlier this year as well. If you guys remember, I had posted this summer how she had her "come to jesus" moment about her weight. She rubbed her hands over her bulging belly one night while getting into the shower and said "I'm getting seriously fat, I need to stop eating so many snacks." She didn't say it playfully either, she sounded genuinely disgusted with herself. I tried to think of something to say, but all I could manage on the fly was "oh sweetie, you're beautiful just the way you are " or some cliché like that. To which she responded "no, I'm really not", and "It's embarrassing". I was pretty devastated because I thought that the fun had finally come to an end, that she had reached her breaking point and was determined to lose her belly and actually get in shape. My mind immediately went to the worst case scenario: diet changes, nightly exercise, refusing to eat out with me, etc. At first she was refusing her usual bedtime snack and eating noticeably smaller portions. I really thought that was it. But about 2 weeks later we went on a few day vacation, just the two of us, and she ate like a hog the whole time. I have one of the hottest memories ever from that trip where she got tipsy and extremely full at dinner and then we went back to the hotel and I rubbed her swollen belly while standing behind her in the shower. She looked huge, honestly the biggest I've ever seen her besides late in her pregnancy, but this time it was just a big, bloated, fat belly. She stuffed her face breakfast, lunch, and dinner and stayed pretty swollen the whole trip. I thought she had just given up on the whole "not being fat" thing. She hasn't said much lately about her weight, but I must say that her tummy doesn't quite seem to stick out as much as it once did. Her belly is soft and doughy, her butt is curvy and dimpled, and her d cup breasts that were very perky (and frequently on display in a low cut v-neck shirt or dress) are hanging down a little more and resting on her tummy. That last part I actually find extremely hot, but she's become a fan of push up bras which perk the girls up and make her look like she has huge boobs which I don't mind either. I do have to wonder though, is she losing weight and intentionally not telling me because she knows I like her fat? Is this just part of the normal weight fluctuations that I've always seen with her? I tend to over think things in general, but I swear this stuff drives me crazy sometimes. I'll still love her either way, but God would I miss that perfect belly she's grown. ronnie17de, lalt, NikeLove1986 and 1 other 3 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
chubbybutt22 Posted October 23, 2021 Share Posted October 23, 2021 Sometime I look thinner if my belly hangs more? But weight fluctuations are super common in women. So. Who know. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bellyluvr Posted October 23, 2021 Author Share Posted October 23, 2021 I thought about that, I mean when she first started noticeably gaining weight her belly just kept sticking out more and more. It was probably mid year 2020 that it started to actually hang a little bit. Currently when we're standing facing each other I have to be several feet away before I can see a hint of panties from the front because her belly sticks out and hangs over her fupa. So maybe it's the weight of her belly fat actually making her appear less round? She does have a little bulge in the front of her jeans where the lower part of her stomach is squeezed in... NikeLove1986, empee, ronnie17de and 1 other 3 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bellyluvr Posted October 29, 2021 Author Share Posted October 29, 2021 I can't say enough good things about the Victoria's Secret "cheeky" panties I bought my wife. They're like a push-up bra, but for cheeks instead of boobs lol. As I know I've said before; I've always wished my wife had a bigger butt. She's always had a cute butt, just not very big. As her belly has grown, she's becoming more and more visually front heavy. I'm not complaining, because I love that look. It makes her look fatter than she actually is I think. The fact that she's always one big meal away from looking pregnant again is a huge turn on. Last night she slipped out of a somewhat snug-fitting dress, and I noticed she was wearing those new panties. As she pulled the dress up to get it off, it caught on her butt a little. Once it cleared, her cheeks jiggled a little and I did a double take. Was that really my wife's ass? I saw two luscious, plump, round cheeks popping out the edges of the semi-transparent black fabric. "Are those the new panties I got you?" I asked as I stared in disbelief at her. "Yeah" she said as she started to blush and quickly grabbed the front of her panties and tried to pull them up over as much of her belly as she could, which ended up making her fupa roll even more prominent. I couldn't help myself, so I walked over and put my arms around her and cupped her ass in my hands as I kissed her. I honestly couldn't believe how perfect she looked in those panties. I've missed my wife wearing thongs until now. She's always looked great in thongs, but these are better and she has to squeeze into them. She insisted on size large and I'm glad she did. The tightness is what makes them. As a plus, her love handles really stick out and her tummy hangs over the front too. And the fupa roll... yeah she's really fun to play with 😍 ronnie17de, Unknown91polo, NikeLove1986 and 5 others 4 1 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
NikeLove1986 Posted October 29, 2021 Share Posted October 29, 2021 Man oh man if a time for a pic ever needed to be taken... Great update though bellyluvr 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
chubbyfatroll Posted November 5, 2021 Share Posted November 5, 2021 It’s amazing how great ladies look in different sexy undies! Plus now you know you can buy a few large and a few extra large next order for her! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bellyluvr Posted November 6, 2021 Author Share Posted November 6, 2021 I do really want to buy her some extra large, but I think there's a mental barrier there for her. I keep telling her she's got a nice butt, don't be afraid to make it bigger, love the way you're filling out your jeans, etc. She seems to just roll her eyes or brush it off most of the time, except during sex she responds nicely to a little slap or a squeeze now that she's got some jiggle back there. I think it's still difficult for her to accept the idea of "plus size". She came home from work last night, took off her coat, and her belly was poking out under her sweater. She's round but she fights buying bigger clothes pretty hard... lalt, maybejames, NikeLove1986 and 1 other 3 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bellyluvr Posted November 9, 2021 Author Share Posted November 9, 2021 Wife and I had a somewhat unpleasant conversation last night about some issues in our household, so I decided to try to lighten the mood by offering to get us a bedtime snack. She was apparently still annoyed from some of my blunt statements that I had made during our conversation. She retorted as she poked her stomach: "why are you always trying to feed me stuff? Can't you see I'm already fat enough as it is?" I replied with "well sweetie I was just wanting to have a snack with you, we always have a snack together." She wasn't having it and walked off to our bedroom. I followed, and we sat on the bed for awhile while she played on her phone. I started out by rubbing her back but ended up getting my hand slapped when I started playing with her tummy and her boobs. I moved away from her and turned on the TV and watched something for a few minutes until I heard her say quietly "I'm thinking about getting a snack now." She sat there rubbing one hand over her belly while continued to stare at her phone. I said "well ok sweetie I'm going to get you a snack then, you know I'm the best snack maker." "You know I changed my mind, I don't want a snack." She said, at this point her shirt pulled up and her free hand kneading her bulging belly roll. "Well I'm going to get one anyway, I promise it will be the best snack ever." I said as I walked off towards the kitchen. I got her cookies and chocolate milk, as well as some of her favorite crackers. She happily ate all of it without a fuss. She's just too damn cute, especially when she's pissed off and pouty. Since she's already going into this holiday season with more belly than she's had any other year, I see some potential for some good gains ahead. I just have to keep her appetite up and keep food around that she likes. Her birthday is coming up pretty soon and she'll be getting a $100 gift card to her favorite Chinese buffet as well as a few others to restaurants near her work. I swear that if she could eat at that buffet every day she'd be 50 pounds heavier in a few months. She just can't help herself in there, the last time I saw her eat there I thought she was going to get sick. She went back for plate after plate until she was hiccupping and burping while rubbing her tummy as she waddled outside. I hate Chinese food but I love my fat stuffed wife 🥰 Unknown91polo, Upthendown2, fatowl and 2 others 3 1 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bellyluvr Posted November 14, 2021 Author Share Posted November 14, 2021 Wife has been sick the last few days and has been wanting chocolate shakes from dairy queen. Last night I thought I heard her say that she wanted a shake, but when I asked her what she had said she acted like she said she was "going to take a shower." I was pretty sure I heard her say "shake" so I offered to go get her one. This might sound weird but just thinking about her sucking 1000 calories of thick chocolate shake into her belly got me turned on. It always feels like a win when I can get her to ingest a ton of calories right before bed. A stuffed, snack-filled belly is the main reason she put on the 40-50 pounds she has in the past few years, so I've got to keep up with it if I want her sexy tummy and fat round ass to stay or grow a little more. ronnie17de, Unknown91polo, lalt and 1 other 4 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
NikeLove1986 Posted November 14, 2021 Share Posted November 14, 2021 hope she feels better soon. The thought of her drinking shakes and adding inches and pounds to her is a total win lalt and bellyluvr 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lalt Posted November 15, 2021 Share Posted November 15, 2021 8 hours ago, bellyluvr said: This might sound weird but just thinking about her sucking 1000 calories of thick chocolate shake into her belly got me turned on. If that’s weird then that must make me very weird 😅 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bellyluvr Posted November 19, 2021 Author Share Posted November 19, 2021 I made a very interesting discovery last night guys, and this kind of changes the way I look at my wife's gain. She was laying in bed looking at her phone last night and I was being nosy so I glanced over and asked her what she was doing. I happened to notice that it was the page for her doctor's office, and I was intrigued because I thought I might catch a glimpse of her weight from her latest visit. (She has to go frequently, about once a month) Well catch a glimpse I did, and I was pretty surprised. 185 lbs. Maybe I shouldn't be surprised, but I had theorized years ago that she was likely around 150 or 160 when we met. Her driver's license has always said 140, but I know that's never been right. She commented during month 9 of her pregnancy that she was "almost 200 pounds" and that seemed right to me. She looked and felt 50 pounds heavier than the first time we had sex(obviously she also had a huge preggo belly too, but she was soft, her ass was fat, her legs were thick, her hips were wide, and she had a soft jiggly pouch of fat under her big baby belly. In total it looked like 40 or 50 pounds worth. Using that baseline of 200, I figured she may have dropped down to 180 within a month of two after giving birth. Baby weight and water weight I figured would be 20 lbs give or take. Then over the years following that I have watched her grow rounder in the belly, wider in the butt, thicker in the thighs, and overall softer. I figured she had passed her highest pregnancy weight sometime in 2020. I'd have guessed her current weight around 205-210. So 185... Maybe she has lost weight in the past couple months like I had kind of suspected, or maybe the gains have been much smaller in number that I imagined because of the way they show themselves on her small 5'2" frame. I mean 5'2" at 185 makes her a chunky little girl. Definitely has a tummy, definitely has thick legs, jiggly ass, good size boobs. If this is 185 I really have to wonder what 200 would look like without the preggo belly... Let's hope this holiday season can get her there! NikeLove1986, ronnie17de, fatowl and 1 other 4 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bellyluvr Posted November 20, 2021 Author Share Posted November 20, 2021 I forgot to add this in last night, but I have another one to add in from tonight anyway. She's definitely had a good appetite lately. Twice within the last week she's finished her dinner and then leaned back in her chair while rubbing her belly and said she wanted more. The first night we had chicken, pasta, and green beans. She finished her plate but there wasn't any more for seconds. She said she was still hungry and opened up a bag of chips and sat there at the table munching for about 10 more minutes. The second was this evening, we all got Wendy's. She had a double stack, 4 piece nugget, and fries. She finished it, leaned back and let out a sigh as she rubbed her stomach and said "man that was good, but I want another burger now" I offered to go get her one from the McDonald's that's about 10 blocks away, she said "no it's ok" I told her I was planning on going to the gas station anyway (I made those plans just then as an excuse to get her more food) and told her it was no problem. She half whispered that she'd take a 10 piece nugget with ranch. I did end up going to the gas station as well and thought seriously about getting her some donuts just to see how much I could get her to stuff into her belly before she actually realized how full she was. I decided against that, but I'll get her a little 800 calorie snack of cookies and chocolate milk to top off her full tummy before bed tonight. Then I'll snuggle up with her and rub her belly while she falls asleep. Id like to think she's getting pretty used to being my fat little wifey by now. lalt, ronnie17de, NikeLove1986 and 1 other 2 1 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bellyluvr Posted November 20, 2021 Author Share Posted November 20, 2021 Cookies and milk in her belly, off to bed looking round in her pajamas 🥰 time for tummy rubs! ronnie17de 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
NikeLove1986 Posted November 20, 2021 Share Posted November 20, 2021 damn bro you got your wife on Auto feed now.. These updates have been bellyluvr 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bellyluvr Posted November 20, 2021 Author Share Posted November 20, 2021 3 hours ago, NikeLove1986 said: damn bro you got your wife on Auto feed now.. These updates have been "Auto feed" lol the funny thing is she goes in cycles. Sometimes there's a week or two where she'll just pick at her food and not finish it, and refuse snacks before bed. Then the next week she's going for seconds every night and letting me get her all kinds of snacks to stuff her belly with before bed. I honestly think there's a connection between her appetite and her birth control shots that she takes every few months. I've noticed her food intake dropping off right before it's time for another shot, then a couple weeks after she takes it she's back to pigging out. That's where she is right now, definitely in a pig out phase. But I'd be willing to bet that just before her next dose she'll be back to not eating as much. She also smokes a little on occasion and if I catch her after she's smoked or hit her vape pen she's pretty much guaranteed to just keep eating if I keep giving her snacks. If only I could convince her to have sex when she's bloated and sloshy from a big dinner and drinks... I've only gotten that opportunity a few times in our entire relationship and it hasn't been recently, she was much smaller back then. Maybe now that her belly is nice and fat it's just too much to bounce around when she's full or something. ronnie17de, lalt and NikeLove1986 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bellyluvr Posted November 21, 2021 Author Share Posted November 21, 2021 Just like so many other guys in a relationship with a curvy woman, I'm always afraid of the tipping point: the point where she says screw being fat and changes her diet, starts working out, and turns herself into society's "ideal" shape: flat stomach, boobs in a padded cup push up bra to make them look at big as possible when they're actually pretty small, and a flat, toned ass in yoga pants. If there's any time for a tipping point, it's when she's spilling out of her current pants like a stuffed sausage and eating like there's no tomorrow headed into the holiday season full of the heavy, calorie laden foods that she craves. I knew her pants were tight, but when it took me 30 seconds to unbutton her jeans last night as things got steamy, I knew the tipping point could be very near. She's one turkey and mashed potatoes food coma away from shooting her pants button across the room. Knowing this, I did a simple Google search for "how to tell my wife I like her fat" just to get a baseline on what the average non-curvage member might say. What I happened to stumble on was a site where a middle aged woman had written in to an "ask Alice" type of column about her weight gain and her husband's reaction. She wrote that she and her husband had been married for 15 years, and that in that time she had gained a fair amount of weight. She was very aware of her weight gain and wasn't exactly thrilled about it but not bothered enough to stop or reverse it either. But her husband on the other hand was extremely vocal and infatuated with her newfound curves. She wrote that during sex he would talk about getting her fatter and feeding her. It all sounded good and honestly pretty hot until she dropped the bomb: she hated it. She wasn't even particularly bothered by the weight she had put on but she was very bothered by her husband's constant talking about it and what she considered "weird" and mood killing talk about getting her bigger during sex. I've always been very careful with my wife when it comes to talking about her weight, especially since I got such a horrible reaction the one time I commented that I missed her curves after she had lost some weight. It's a touchy subject to say the least, and I've shyed away from talking about it at all as much as I can. This has gotten more difficult for me as of late with her big belly and fat dimpled ass jiggling every time I see her naked. I've started slipping in subtle and not so subtle comments during sex that she's gotten fat and I love what I'm seeing. My go to is usually slapping her fat jiggly butt and telling her I love how round she's getting, and there's no such thing as too much booty. I've even gone as far as telling her that the bigger her ass gets, the hornier I get(which is totally true). The problem is that I know she doesn't like talking about her weight and I'm wondering if these types of comments are counter productive in making her feel sexy in her own skin. Even though I'm talking about her body in a very positive way, I'm still highlighting the fact that she's gotten fat. I know I'm not the only one in this situation, what have others found is the best way to make a woman feel sexy? Women please feel free to comment, I'd love to hear your thoughts too! ronnie17de, NikeLove1986 and lalt 2 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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