Advice to keep wife bigger? (She's actively gaining now)

[Onlybbwplease]

Took a bag of clothes to Goodwill for her today. Appears mostly size 14-16 jeans, so she's consciously acknowledging those won't fit ever. 

[Onlybbwplease]

Going to a friends outdoor BBQ later. I need to go run errands before, and she asked if I can pickup a pizza on the way home from our favorite local pizza place. I shot back laughing that it's strange you're now self conscious, so eating before the BBQ? She just responds that she worries there won't be enough to go around, so better to be safe, plus she'll need a snack later. So for those scoring at home, she will basically have 3 dinners, likely lots of dessert, as well as booze. Also excited as it has probably been 20-30lbs since we've seen a lot of these people. 

[pjotr91]

What a great development for you and your wife. I Love to read it. Really curious for a picture tho 😀

[Curve Enjoyer]

So amazingly hot. Especially getting to see how everyone reacted to her plumpening. How'd the night end up going for y'all?

[Onlybbwplease]

9 hours ago, Endlessly Feed Women said:

So amazingly hot. Especially getting to see how everyone reacted to her plumpening. How'd the night end up going for y'all?

Night went well, wore a "loose" fitting black summer dress that hugged about every curve. There were I think 3 pregnant women there and I was hoping that someone would ask her. she just sat in her lawn chair the whole time with a group of people. I delivered her wings/burger, then a plate of dessert, as well as drinks when asked. We stayed later than expected, and given she had pizza before, she laid the seat back and complained how full she was on the way home. I offered to stop for ice cream, but she refused. I shou;d've stopped anyways, but did not

[Curve Enjoyer]

Sounds like she was filled to the brim! And for the ice cream—she’ll just have to make up for it in the future

Is she still grazing throughout the day with always a bit of room for something more or has she stepped up her game a bit; I guess what I’m asking is if she’s keeping steady with being loose with her diet but not gorging herself, or if you’ve noticed her portions / daily intake increase over the past couple of months. One last one, about how often would you say she stuffs herself like that one night y’all went out to dinner or this lost recent outing with your friends.

I absolutely love reading all of your posts, it’s so refreshing to see one of us living the dream, and they way you’ve shown her transformation from slightly hesitant to gain all the way to the beginnings of full-fledged feedee have me going wild. I don’t know what it is, but getting to witness the real time shift from a mindset of restriction to a mindset of complete freedom has been insanely hot. Been an absolute pleasure reading how you’ve seen the week to week and month to month changes in her form and lifestyle. Living the absolute dream!

Would love to hear more about how she’s working to make you happy and how you’re helping her along 😊 

[Onlybbwplease]

On 9/17/2020 at 12:11 PM, Endlessly Feed Women said:

Sounds like she was filled to the brim! And for the ice cream—she’ll just have to make up for it in the future

Is she still grazing throughout the day with always a bit of room for something more or has she stepped up her game a bit; I guess what I’m asking is if she’s keeping steady with being loose with her diet but not gorging herself, or if you’ve noticed her portions / daily intake increase over the past couple of months. One last one, about how often would you say she stuffs herself like that one night y’all went out to dinner or this lost recent outing with your friends.

I absolutely love reading all of your posts, it’s so refreshing to see one of us living the dream, and they way you’ve shown her transformation from slightly hesitant to gain all the way to the beginnings of full-fledged feedee have me going wild. I don’t know what it is, but getting to witness the real time shift from a mindset of restriction to a mindset of complete freedom has been insanely hot. Been an absolute pleasure reading how you’ve seen the week to week and month to month changes in her form and lifestyle. Living the absolute dream!

Would love to hear more about how she’s working to make you happy and how you’re helping her along 😊 

Thanks for the response, and glad you enjoy hearing about it. It will be a dream when she is 2x her current size, maybe one can dream!

Grazing - I think this is the best way to get her to grow fast. Grazing on fatty snack is much better than eating a big meal that may not be as fattening. She works 3-4 days/week and unfortunately at work, she doesn't have time to graze. But she does stop at Dunkin on the way for her large frozen coffee that has damn near 1k calories.

When at home, I ensure fatty snacks are left out on the kitchen counter, and she doesn't resist. I would say it has been steady, not as major increase, but still eating a lot. As for stuffings, it seems like she takes enjoyment when out and away from kids to just eat til she can't eat anymore. I take pleasure in knowing the server or other people may be judging, while she openly talks about how hungry and then full she is. 

Long story short, her lifestyle isn't revolved around eating/getting fat, but she naturally eats a lot and is getting fat because of it, and knows I enjoy it. 

As far as making happy, most men know, it is about making her happy. I do my best, and like any relationship there are ups and downs. She knows it makes me happy when I call her my goddess, and in turn means she will eat more in certain situations. I have said it before, but she figuratively "wears the pants" in our marriage. But i think until I really came out/got caught as wanting her huge, she was always somewhat self conscious. I hope/think I have given her the confidence that her being fat is sexy in my eyes, and she's probably always subconsciously wanted to eat and be herself, and now it is in the front of her conscious due to me, and she's doing that, and the extra weight is a byproduct of her love for food. 

[Onlybbwplease]

We were eating at a local Mexican restaurant last night, and there was this couple on their way out. The lady had a MASSIVE belly, but tiny legs and ass. Her partner was holding her hand as she waddled out in her gray sweatpants that her belly was damn near to her knees. Truth be told, she wasn't very attractive to me, but the wife caught me staring and said, "do you find that attractive?" I just replied, "no, her ass is too small" while having a little smirk. I then said it is cute her husband was holding her hand helping her out. She agreed, and said, "couple goals, right?" I laughed and said yes it depends on the goals, but yes. 

On the way home, that couple got brought up again, and I think she was stuck on the overall unattractiveness of the lady. Not trying to be mean, but aside from the belly, she wasn't. She went on about how she can't imagine being that big, and I basically told her that her ass was bigger than that ladies, just her face and overall appearance wasn't attractive. She then says, "OK babe, I don't want to be THAT, but i do want ice cream." After getting Sonic ice cream, she once again said she can't imagine being that big. I reassured her that the lady had a completely different body type and overall looks. I said she can probably double her weight and still be smaller and more attractive. She then comes back with saying if she doubled her weight she'd have to resort back to those big gray sweatpants the lady at the restaurant had and waddling out. I said she'd be sexy no matter what she wore. She then grabbed my hand and semi jokingly said, "couple goals, right?" I then probably took it too far and said, yes, what is your goal for me? She kind of went cold and said she doesn't have one, but as long as I am there for her in her wishes, she will be there for me in mine. 

So liberating knowing she knows my preference! For all you FA's scared to make it known, do it! If your wife is bigger already, she will know....

[Onlybbwplease]

No real big update here in the last month. Which is good I think as no lack of eating on her end. She doesn’t seem to be getting too much bigger but it’s a marathon, not a sprint. 

She had a birthday, and a good friend of hers who moved away a couple years ago sent a card and Victoria’s Secret gift card. This friend is big herself, and has gotten much bigger over the last 5-10 years with kids etc. and seems to be comfortable in her body.  
 

My wife called to thank her and asked her if she shops there, and friend replied hell no, nothing fits. Then my wife asked jokingly why the hell she bought her a gift card there, as nothing will fit her either. Friend says well save it, and wife says I hope you don’t mind if I re gift. Both got a good laugh. Another example of an old friend who thought she was still somewhat avg size. 

[Onlybbwplease]

My goddess was about 190 when I posed the initial question of how to keep her bigger back in August of 2019. Today, I finally caught a glimpse of the scale and saw 224.7 lbs. So 34 lbs gained over 15 months. That’s barely a half pound per week which seems like nothing, but then big I look big picture and if she can gain 20-30lbs per year, well you get the idea  

[KFD]

Keep her happy. That's all you have to do. If she isn't fat enough for you, find someone who is. I swear, I made an entire post about this, as if in this very subforum to answer this question.  

 

[Curve Enjoyer]

On 11/23/2020 at 9:14 AM, KFD said:

If she isn't fat enough for you, find someone who is. I swear, I made an entire post about this, as if in this very subforum to answer this question.  

 

They're married and have kids together. The fuck are you on about trying to encourage this dude to leave?

[Onlybbwplease]

On 11/23/2020 at 10:14 AM, KFD said:

Keep her happy. That's all you have to do. If she isn't fat enough for you, find someone who is. I swear, I made an entire post about this, as if in this very subforum to answer this question.  

 

Ha not happening here. She’s perfect for me, and she knows she’ll never be fat enough for me, but we’re working on that

[KFD]

On 11/24/2020 at 9:08 AM, Endlessly Feed Women said:

They're married and have kids together. The fuck are you on about trying to encourage this dude to leave?

A.) Chill with the language. I'll throw you in the box for a few days. It seems like people forget who I am.

 

Honestly, fattening someone up for their own sexual gratification is some psychopathic shit.

You don't keep her bigger. She's not a fucking possession. If she doesn't make your dick hard, find something that will. If it's not fulfilling enough, then user Endlessly Feed Women, you are proving my point.

Marriage and kids should be a far larger priority. 

 

You don't keep her bigger, you keep her happier. 

You signed that dotted line, you got a ring on it, keeping her bigger got yeeted out the window a long time ago.

[Guest superbacon7]

2 hours ago, KFD said:

A.) Chill with the language. I'll throw you in the box for a few days. It seems like people forget who I am

I agree with what you're saying but this comes off as really weird, are you bragging about being a mod on a fat porn forum

[Avataг]

1 hour ago, superbacon7 said:

are you bragging about being a mod on a fat porn forum

He's not "a mod on a fat porn forum", he's the mod - on the wonderful fat community website that is Curvage - you don't want to fuck with.

[KFD]

3 hours ago, superbacon7 said:

I agree with what you're saying but this comes off as really weird, are you bragging about being a mod on a fat porn forum

I'm not bragging about being a mod here, I'm advising Endlessly Feed Women to chill with the attitude, or find out the hard way what consequences are.

For others reading, including OP, do you think for a second that your significant other would be horrified to read statements like you want to secretly fatten her? Why do you guys think I stickied that "how to fatten my fucktoy" thread in this very subforum?

Yes, my statement was callous, but you break it down, what's important, what you stick your dick in, or who you stick your dick in? 

Don't like my advice? Lemme talk to you about divorce then.

Happy girls are the best lovers. 🤷🏼‍♂️

[Curvage Casey CLIPS]

8 hours ago, Avataг said:

He's not "a mod on a fat porn forum", he's the mod - on the wonderful fat community website that is Curvage - you don't want to fuck with.

[Onlybbwplease]

Long time no update as I was a little peeved the mod called me out for trying to ask for (and successfully get) advice on how to show my wife I love her newfound curves, and in turn her openly and willingly gaining weight  All good though. 

New year, new goals. We went out to dinner the other night, and her favorite saying when ordering a lot of food is, "diet starts Monday, so I will order XYZ" We both know it is quite the opposite, just her way of justifying ordering 2 apps, a main entree and dessert for "both" of us. We had a few cocktails at the bar prior to our reservation, so she was more open and flirty. At dinner she asked what my NY Resolution was, and I said, "for us to make enough money that we can easily afford to keep turning the closet over." She agreed, and later I asked her if 250 was out of reach or not for 2021, and she laughed and said she's already bought clothes for that size, so if we wanna turn the closet over again, she would need to lose to buy her old sizes or get bigger, and teasingly asked what I preferred as she took a bite of cheese cake. She said she does need a nice new summer wardrobe, so that's the new goal!

Then yesterday, we hosted brunch with some close family back from college (they've all had C-19 so we're safe), made a huge casserole and biscuits and gravy. She once again joked that diet starts Monday, then after they left she ran errands, and came back with a huge order from Taco Bell. 2021 is great so far. 

[Onlybbwplease]

Nothing sexier in the mornings then seeing her struggle to get into her size 20 jeans. A size up is definitely on the horizon. 

[Onlybbwplease]

We went out to dinner with a small group of friends for dinner last night. One couple we hadn’t seen in well over a year, maybe 2. One of them at some point asked how we’ve been/what we’ve been up to. No hesitation, my goddess says, “well we’ve been eating well!” Someone else replied something like haven’t we all. 
 

We went to an area we don’t get to much, so before dinner I was informed to try this ice cream spot after. She ate a very nice dinner, dessert, then we each got ice cream before we headed home, with her eating most of mine while I drove home. She also had lots of wine. 
 

I won’t get into a ton of detail, but last night was the first time her belly/thighs caused a small issue in bed. We just changed positions and it was fine, but we both agreed how hot it was after the fact and how we need to start taking different measures so we’re ready next time that happens. 

[Onlybbwplease]

I just went out and ran some errands and she legit was mad at me when I got home and didn’t have ice cream for her. Like it’s become habit every time I go out, I bring back food for her. Now off to get my goddess some ice cream, getting her a pre lunch and post lunch snack. We got 4 boxes of Girl Scout cookies yesterday, and 3 are gone. 🤷‍♀️

[Guest high]

On 3/13/2021 at 12:08 PM, Onlybbwplease said:

I just went out and ran some errands and she legit was mad at me when I got home and didn’t have ice cream for her. Like it’s become habit every time I go out, I bring back food for her. Now off to get my goddess some ice cream, getting her a pre lunch and post lunch snack. We got 4 boxes of Girl Scout cookies yesterday, and 3 are gone. 🤷‍♀️

Awesome!

I think it's important to build new habits that align with future goals.

Good for you!

[Onlybbwplease]

I’ve mentioned that her OBGYN is overweight and has been overall positive about this new weight. 

This week she saw her primary Dr for something unrelated. At the end of the appointment, her Dr said that she has other patients who struggled to lose baby weight (mind you we’re 2 years removed from the baby), and she’d be more than happy to write a prescription for a drug that helps with weight loss by suppressing your appetite. I guess my wife laughed and said she has 30 other things on her mind right now, but weight loss isn’t one of them so she will pass. Plus she likes food too much to have no appetite. Dr just said you do you girl and moved on. 

[Guest high]

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