Advice to keep wife bigger? (She's actively gaining now)

[Onlybbwplease]

11 minutes ago, NikeLove1986 said:

Medium and she got size 20 pants lol I bet those mediums fit really well 😂😂😂 In all seriousness I love how she was like size 16 psh...  let's push for the 20 holidays are still here.. 

Yea dude....in the past when she was smaller I never inquired about why she brought something back. I saw the Size 16's in her passenger seat, so then when she said she was returning them, I asked why...she just replied no way they're fitting. Didn't expect qty 4 of size 20 lol. But like I said, she starts a new job in a month, and obviously didn't lose the weight she wanted. Win for us all. 

[Onlybbwplease]

Last Dr appt in October she was I think 190 or 195. Went back to get new BC, and saw her results from the Dr last week...205. All normal vitals, etc are perfect too. So a good 10-15lbs in 2-3 months with near perfect health. I will take it. 

Also, it used to be Coke Zero or Diet Coke....now the fridge is stocked with regular Coke, which she drinks 3-4 daily. 

[Onlybbwplease]

Big changes...for the better. I will post more later, but I will just say that life is good right now. I've put on about 15lbs during her gain, and the other night she said she loved my bigger belly. I am not overweight by any means. I hate my weight gain. But when she said she loved my bigger belly, I relayed my love for hers. She was initially pissed, but has come around and is embracing it. More to come...

[Onlybbwplease]

So it’s good and bad currently. 

Wife still seems somewhat turned off I told her I enjoy the extra weight on her. I haven’t been laid in about a week and my moves have been turned down. But she also knows me well enough that she’s just been teasing the shit out of me. Just walking around in undersized shirts that keep riding up her belly, and casually rubbing her belly in front of me. Either she’s more comfortable now and subconsciously doing this, or she’s just teasing me. She’s had lower back pain unrelated to her weight which has her in small pain and that may be her lack of sex drive. It’s also made her a lazy blob. 

That being said, the holidays have treated her very well and she’s pigging out on anything and everything. Not even hiding it. Last week the neighbors brought us a pan of brownies and they were gone in less than 48 hrs. Last night delivery for dinner was late and she made bacon to keep her from starving. She then ate cookies and a bowl of cereal for dessert. A few months ago she was able to somehow conceal her size with super loose dresses and leggings. Now she’s so wide, there’s no hiding it. 
 

Hopefully she’s just been so full and lazy that sex hasn’t been something she’s wanted the last week, and I’ll make sure to worship her body next time to make her actually come around more on me loving her growing size. Then from there we can discuss growing her even further.  

[Onlybbwplease]

I was doing some reflecting/dreaming just now as my wife came out for a snack that consisted of cookies and cheetos. As I've said before, her body type today is like a small version of BC Chloe. But bulging and small hanging belly, visible love handles, big tits, and growing thighs. Looking for progressions/goals, some realistic and some are a fantasy. 

Next step: BC Chloe size (around 250-300lbs...a gain of 50-75 from where she is)

From there: Like a LoveAdipose type size, around 350ish

Both of those I think are realistic in the next 2-5 years. 

From there: A Juicy Jackie or Adeline size

My dream: The size of a Jae or Ash. Maybe one day

 

[allgrownup]

Once you get them going the target seems to move  The fun of growing them never stops  

[Onlybbwplease]

On 1/7/2020 at 1:30 PM, allgrownup said:

Once you get them going the target seems to move  The fun of growing them never stops  

So timely, my friend. Tonight while looking at old pics on her phone, she saw a few pics from 4-5 years ago when she was maybe 145ish, and goes, "wow I thought I was fat then!" I just replied, "you were beautiful then and more beautiful now". Goes to your point that the target keeps moving. She thought she was fat at 145, now 205, what is next?

Edit for more info: Tonight I had a work event and got home when dinner was coldish, fettucini alfredo. Wife had to leave when I got home, and told me to feed the kids. She gets home a couple hours later with a "healthy" sandwich. I tell her that I saved her dinner so she didn't need to bring home her own dinner. As she goes into the cupboards to get a big ass bag of chips, she thanks me for saving dinner, but says she ate before I got home. So she ate dinner, left for errands, got a sandwich, ate that and a big ass bag of chips, then munched on the leftovers I left her, the saw a picture of herself 60lbs ago, and kept eating. 

[allgrownup]

9 hours ago, Onlybbwplease said:

So she ate dinner, left for errands, got a sandwich, ate that and a big ass bag of chips, then munched on the leftovers I left her, the saw a picture of herself 60lbs ago, and kept eating.

That's a turn on all in itself, isn't it? That feeding of the food reward loop, knowing full well that if she stops, she'll start again because she would deprive herself consistently of those rewarding feelings.

It's a little bit like getting your wife addicted to food, where knowing she is fat or not, wanting to be thin(ner) or not, she basically can't but eat.

[Onlybbwplease]

One day it will be, "I need to lose 35 lbs by April. I just nod and say OK while reminding her how sexy she is. The next day (yesterday) it is going out for beers and pizza, then on the way home stopping at a local ice cream shop for her to pick dessert up for the way home. The menu said 750 calories for dessert. She also got 2 shakes. I've never seen this eating behavior so obvious from her. She just said 1 for tonight and one for the morning. Both were gone by end of the night. As she ordered in the drive thru I jokingly rubbed her belly and said "wow that will be full and juicy tonight!" She laughed and said, "yup, maybe some will go to my ass to make it proportional"

Big win this weekend. 

[Onlybbwplease]

She literally pigged out all day Sunday as her "diet" started Monday....again. Goal was no carbs. Now that I think about it, she said that around her mom, so was likely just giving her mom what she wants to hear. 

Monday - ate leftover pizza for dinner, then I was up late working and she came out to snack middle of night

Tuesday - tried new BBQ place. She ate most my mac n cheese and corn bread along with her meal

Tonight - Italian and wine

Her belly and hips are now impossible to cover up. From the outside observer, it appears she's ballooned, but in reality she just can't hide it anymore. Maybe 3-4 months ago, her belly had a slight hang and stuck out. Now gravity is taking its toll, and I even noticed around her belly button where it appears it's expanding, and my hope is that a sexy roll develops there. 

[Onlybbwplease]

Been a month, but overall I bet she gained 5 lbs or so. On 2/3 she started morning workouts. Lasted about 2 weeks, but made her eat more. Last week, no carbs again...lasted 2 days. For lent she gave up sweets. Last night she was pigging out on sweets on the couch. One small disappointment, I had some candid pics saved in my deleted folder of her progress, some from Sept, Nov and Dec. Let them lapse unfortunately so they're gone. But still have the before befores, so will try to get more. She is so round and wide. We're going on a beach vacation this summer, and she sent me a couple sexy 1 piece suits she thought about buying. I sent her a Forever 21 suit where it just went to size Medium (playing dumb). She replies that will never fit, and I replied to find one that does. So tomorrow night we're going swimsuit shopping. Also, I don't know if she's just outgrown all her new clothes, or is buying other ones, but she's a lot more confident in what she wears. As opposed to loose dresses, now normal shirts where her belly and arms bulge out. Life is good. 

[Onlybbwplease]

Last night we are drunk...doing the deed, she actually looked somewhat smaller, who knows though. I was reaching back grabbing her "ass" and I say that as when she rides, no way I can reach that far. Essentially grabbing her hips, then she grabs my hands and places them on her belly and I just grab a handful with both hands. She tells me that she knows I like when I grab a handful of her belly. We both pass out after, and this morning I walk behind her while she's cooking breakfast and do the behind hug and grab her belly in doing so. She stops the grab and says, "that grab is reserved for the bedroom" then pulls her undersized tank top partially over her belly and walks away. She has a long day tomorrow and I promised her a full body massage. Usually these are shoulders, back, back of legs. But I am gonna make a point to do front/belly and see how she handles it. But at least in intimate situations she has embraced her growing belly. 

[Onlybbwplease]

Had a large get together last night...withing the social distancing limit. Today the wife had the vacuum to clean up...was out of breath early on, so I took over. Walked into the kitchen after I vacuumed, and she was eating cake, not just 1-2 pieces, a damn half a cake. 

[Onlybbwplease]

She referred to herself earlier as a "human garbage disposal" as she ate my leftovers. I laughed and said, if you want me to make more, I am all for it. She just shrugged...

[Garlic]

Get her fattened ASAP please. Blow her up

[Onlybbwplease]

22 hours ago, Master WG said:

Get her fattened ASAP please. Blow her up

Working on it!

[Onlybbwplease]

She had a bit too much of wine last night and i think her true feelings came out. On the couch and she is eating dessert, cake and ice cream .Perfect opp to incorporate food into the bedroom. I ask for a bite of ice cream, take a small one, then scoop a big portion and give her some. I joke I am going to gain a quarantine 15 with all this dessert, and she says, I appear to be on my way to a quarantine 50. Semi joking, but I think serious as well. I then make a move with one hand on her thigh, then kiss her, and she says she wasn't done. So I took the cake, and somewhat aggressively put it by her mouth and she ate it, then I wiped the frosting from around her face off and she licked off my finger. Next thing you know, I am doing what a good husband does down there, and she is still eating cake and ice cream. It was fucking incredible. She had to run an errand earlier to Wal Mart, and I just texted her, "I think you ate all the cake, we baking more or you picking some up at Wal Mart?" She replies, "already in the cart, didn't want to run out of ice cream either, so I picked up Breyers Oreo, and picked up Oreos just in case it wasn't enough." I replied with the eyes wide open emoji, and she then said, I need to hit the gym after the quarantine. We both know that won't happen. 

As far as weight update, she hasn't weighed herself in months, but keeps getting online orders to our doorstep. When I do laundry I look at the tags, and it appears her undershirt which used to be S are now XL, along with her sweatpants. Her leggings are 1x-2x, and jeans are 18-20. Stark contrast to the days of 8-10. 

She got home, and naturally I unloaded the groceries. Lots of snacks. I saw there were hersheys, marshmellows, and graham crackers. She said that we should start the bon fire after kids go to bed and we can make smores. One downside to the quarantine, we were supposed to go to FL in May, and I was excited to help her shop for new swimwear, but that trip has been cancelled. 

 

TLDR: Quarantine has been awful on our finances like everyones, but great for my wife's growing body, and she doesn't appear to be slowing down until we get out of quarantine, but we all know that slowing down isn't happening. She also like to eat food now while being pleasured. 

[NikeLove1986]

Im sorry about your financial situation i. Going through this situation also... But dude this update was one of your best 😁👍

[Guest high]

Super congratulations!

[Onlybbwplease]

Wife grabbed my computer for something, and saw a ssbbw porn video on my desktop. This happened Friday....last night (Sunday) I was made aware. I was made aware when she caught me staring at her bulging belly when eating dinner. She grabbed with both hands and said, "apparently this is small?" I asked what she meant, then she said, apparently you like women 3x my size, then grabbed my computer and pulled up the video (Juicy Jackie vid). I said that is a fantasy of mine, but not so much a preference. Turned serious...She said she likes how much attention I have given her the last 9 months or so in the bedroom and she's been embracing her curves more and more given how sexy I make her feel. Said she won't actively get that fat, but won't diet either. Ultimately she wants to keep me happy, and if being big helps, she won't lose the weight. She just asked that I continue to do chores around the house like I have been, and then made a joke that she can incorporate more butter in her cooking, so expect me to gain lbs as well. 

Thanks to all who have provided input, it seems the slow progress of changing her mindset has worked, and the fear of being outed as liking ssbbw, actually turned into the best thing that has happened. She's refused to weigh herself for sometime now, but guessing she is 225 or so, and I can't wait to the day the scale reads 300!

[CherryPi]

Wow, great update! It sounds like you're both happy, congrats man 👍

[Nankdatank]

Is this a dream or real? Congrats you lucky lucky man!

Time and time it gets proven that long term affection and love is the best route for female weight gain

[Onlybbwplease]

Very real. This morning she said she was looking forward to feasting on tacos tonight. Then teased me and said, “if that’s ok with you.”

[Onlybbwplease]

Cinco de Mayo update: Got a dozen tacos (all fried shells), chips and cheese, and margaritas from a local take out place. I ate 4 tacos, way too many and felt like shit and went to bed early. I wake up around midnight to get some water, and she's on the couch in just her underwear and a tank top that is riding up her belly eating a taco, hershey's bar and a marshmellow. She laughs and says I hope you weren't saving any tacos for lunch tomorrow babe. I laughed and gave her a kiss and said, eat them all. 

Today: She says she wants pizza for dinner, I mention a place we both like. Then she says, "I am craving deep dish, but with all the cheese, I tend to break out. But I am really craving it!" A large feeds normal people for 2 days. She instructs me to get 2 larges to be safe. I said, for tonight? She just says, "whatever makes you happy!"

Next step is her agreeing to let me get photos

[Guest high]

This is working out way better than you, I, or anyone else thought it would!