Guest Mikeyp37 Posted June 11, 2019 Share Posted June 11, 2019 So my wife has gained weight over the last few years and is always moaning shes fat and wants to lose weight. All she does though is gain more and is always hungry. even if I say that I love her weight and curves she is still not happy. What should I do? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Voluptuouslover Posted June 11, 2019 Share Posted June 11, 2019 Some options: 1. Just listen to it and say she looks great and she doesn’t need to lose any weight. Most of the time this doesn’t always work....some women just like to express what they may be thinking about with you like you are one of their girlfriends. Her appetite is real....she has gained and is always hungry but doesn’t want to sacrifice anything....so she will probably get Fatter, which is a win for you accept having her always complaining about it. 2. If you are truly sick of hearing it .....next time she brings it up. Just say yes....you have gained a bunch of weight but I love it and wouldn’t even mind if you got really Fat. Maybe this will work with her.....who knows. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Chevalier Posted June 12, 2019 Share Posted June 12, 2019 What a bitch, hold out and if you want to be polite, tell her to make up her mind, or are your treats not good enough for her? @Voluptuouslover I agree with option 2, sometimes negging turns a woman on when white knighting bores her to tears. Use it sparingly and gradually/subtly escalate. Though this may motivate to go into the future where you can promise to be uplifting as she gets fatter and older as that's all that's left to go lol NikeLove1986 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BindsThatTie Posted June 20, 2019 Share Posted June 20, 2019 It took years of strategic compliments before my wife started saying things like "you know, I kind of like my thick thighs. They just needed a tan". Or "I like my ass now". But your wife may never like her body. Just make your feelings known. That's the key. It will help her let go even if only a little bit. If she knows she can't get off the gain train, at least enjoy the ride. 🚆 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
extra_m13 Posted June 22, 2019 Share Posted June 22, 2019 give some timid support, but most of all, do nothing, remind her how much you like her and love her and usually they go back to their gaining ways, habits are called like that for a reason, use that to your advantage BindsThatTie 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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