I wish I didn't have this fetish [trigger warning]

[Russian Troll]

On 4/25/2019 at 8:25 PM, ilovepastries said:

I've pretty much always been into fat girls, for as long as I can remember, and ever since I started masturbating I've almost exclusively jacked off to fat/obese women. The problem is, though, that I could never envision myself pursuing a relationship with an obese woman, let alone one involving feedism. Obesity is frowned upon here (Scandinavia), and I have this dilemma where I'm clearly sexually aroused by obese women, but at the same time the thought of being with a woman who's clinically obese is off-putting, since I myself exercise and maintain a healthy diet and I'd want my partner to do the same. I'm in my mid 20s and I still haven't had a girlfriend, ever, and I'm genuinely scared of even trying to look for a girl, because I know that if her BMI is any lower than 30, I'll have a hard time getting aroused by her, and due to social stigma I doubt she'd ever agree to gaining weight. Even if she were willing to gain weight, I wouldn't want her to turn obese for my sake since I'd be concerned about her health.

1)  30% of guys your age this day is to some extent addicted to porn; their sexual and other functioning could improve in a major way if they didn't use it. Unless you can easily go weeks to months without looking, reading etc any porn or cravings to do so, you don't know whether or not you are an addict. 

2) women who are into strength sports might look 'heavy' but can still successfully argue that they're not fat. Go check out for example the athletic curvage thread.