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Lurker for a while, first post. 

How did you discover you were into   Feederism? Do you have a specific moment where it all clicked?

Have you “come out” per se to anyone about your kink? What were their reactions?

I just love learning how this fetish manifested for other people and thought I’d ask on here! 

Thanks for responding!

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I share that in Habituating my wife to weight gain. Short: when she really, really lost weight I suddenly realized "I don't want this to happen!"

Via here and there learned about feederism specifically on Tumblr. Went from there. 

About 1.5 year ago I really started to work on my wife, encouraging her eating and enabling her snacking and overeating. When weight and diet came up I just told her "I like you with a bit more meat on you" and those discussion progressed from there. She now knows I like her fat(ter) and from her remarks I know she knows or assumes I like fat women. Since then I've taught her to be touched and squeezed in all her fat zones, and my work on growing her continues.

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When I was in elementary school 3rd or 4th grade....I knew I liked the girls with chubbier faces and arms...they just looked cuter to me.  

When I was thirteen I was in a car pool with a couple of neighbor kids and one of their Moms who drove us had big breast, a pretty face....and absolutely stuffed her bigger ass and thighs into extremely tight jeans.  She was pretty damn hot....and she would pack on a good amount of weight in a short period of time....and I remember really loving when she would get bigger.  

At fourteen/fifteen I remember liking several girls that would pack on some lbs. over summer break and from that point on I loved watching women gain weight.

Every  girlfriend and or girls I dated I encouraged to over eat and indulge in desserts etc. and let them know that I liked it when they gained weight.  A few of them got into it for me although I don’t think they were feedees ....they just liked me and it became a bit of our relationship.

I have spoke in detail with my wife about loving when she gains weight. Early on after I told her this we would have weigh ins, and I would take pics.....I kind of over did it....because to this day I have not seen her weigh herself by herself unless at doctors when she was pregnant. To this day we really don’t discuss her weight gain when she does gain unless she brings it up .....I merely don’t bring it up and watch and relish when she starts to fatten up.  Even though I spoke to my wife generally and showed her my fetish for Fat....I don’t think she really know’s how Fat I would love for her to get. 

I guess with all my exes and my wife they were very accepting and played into it a bit. I had a few girls that I dated primarily because they were fatter and or used to be way fatter back then.  I really opened up and discussed weight gain with them. We didn’t have as much in common with them as with my girlfriends but just really wanted to explore my fetish side with them and see what developed.  I came to realize the best was with someone who really liked or loved who would then GAO. Weight.....and the bonus would be if they teased me about their weight gain and how big they would get and actually enjoy it or learn to enjoy it.

thats my quick story.....whoops hope it wasn’t to long.

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For me when I was a Freshmsn in high school my ex girlfriend at the time had moved to the high school across town. Well before she moved she was very thin, played soccer and what not. Well we hadn’t talked in a year and a half and a (girl) friend of mine came up to me and asked “when did your ex get fat?” And I was really confused because everyone knew we hadn’t been together for over a year, so I was like “what do you mean?” ( I forgot to mention we had unfollowed each other on all social media) so my friend says “yeah I was bowling last night and she was there, at first I didn’t think it was her because she used to be so skinny” well she had searched her insta and found that she had blooned, she showed me and I was in shock because I never thought she would get fat because she always told me about how she hated fat people and how much they complained. Once I saw that picture of her something in my head clicked and I instantly followed her on insta, eventually messaging her to meet up and Months of getting back In touch and some sex later we got back together and from there everyone knew I liked fat chicks with me she gained 20 more pounds. 

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It all started when I was maybe 13 and I discovered Bangbros, and Sara Jays big ole booty. From there in discovering porn I realized I liked big butts and the bigger the better .I stumbled across this comic, the adventures of berry girl by  Johnny swell, on 4 Chan of all places, and my dick was like whoa!I don’t remember how I managed to find my way to  but I discovered asshley and plump princess, and the rest is history

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i think yes, it came around adolescence, looking for the chubbiest in baywatch, then making an extra research on the subject and falling for the less skinny models and actresses of the time and then going from there with some delicious before and afters or more curvaceous ladies. curvage material of course. and noticing the effect that it had on my penis it was very clear 

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11 minutes ago, extra_m13 said:

i think yes, it came around adolescence, looking for the chubbiest in baywatch, then making an extra research on the subject and falling for the less skinny models and actresses of the time and then going from there with some delicious before and afters or more curvaceous ladies. curvage material of course. and noticing the effect that it had on my penis it was very clear 

This last line was funny as F .   I also liked it when yasmine Bleeth noticeable gained weight in her tight Red one piece lifeguard swim suit.  She definitely wasn't wasn’t Fat at all....but compared to the others thick and nice....and I always want d her to get really Fat on the show.   Little did I know back then that the producers of TV shows especially one like that....wouldn’t let that happen.

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On 1/23/2019 at 2:55 PM, Darkusmaster123 said:

Yup this is more in line with my discovery. When I was 10 I saw fan art of princess peach and daisy in which they were extremely fat and I was intrigued. Too young to be aroused but when I did start getting old enough to have those feelings I really explored weight gain art, becoming obsessed with anything weight gain. 

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I remember really liking that old Pigs is Pigs force feeding cartoon when i was young. The expansion scene in Leprechaun 3 got me into BE. However i think it was Anna Nicole Smith and her lovely expansion that got me into fat girls and weight gain. RIP Anna

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On 1/23/2019 at 4:55 PM, Darkusmaster123 said:

It is allowed to post any content about teenage girls (even fictional) ? Tptally Spies has indeed a neurotic tendency to veer into extrapolate the broader spectrum of sexual fetishism at every single episode, in thr last news Clover was only 14 years old during the Pastries epidode.

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I noticed this fetish when an early teen.  Went to beach with friend for week.  Naturally, we spent some time checking out the bathing beauties.  I just kept getting worked up and interested in the heavy ones.....no set weight just curves..  My friends kept teasing me about that so I shut up  They  were very pleasing..  Have been madly attracted to curvy women since. 

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Ever since I was a little girl weight gain was something forbidden and taboo, something humiliating to gossip and whisper about. Yet I kept seeing both girls I knew and celebrities putting on weight. The whole taboo aspect made me ultrasensitive to any weight gain in both others and myself, something to enjoy privately or share with others like a dirty secret. I remember from a early age feeling self-conscious about my own weight and feeling smug when I compared my beach body to other girls. 

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I had a fantasy of fattening up a girl in my class to immobility when I was  7 years old. I imagined driving giant trucks of junk food to her house. No idea where this fantasy came from, but its interesting that I had a fixation on this topic long before I had any interest in sex.

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If we talked to Freud he would tell us that this is normal: most of the sex impulses at a very young age and they can depend on insignificant actions (apparently)...so it's common for everyone

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First off, a preface; human sexuality is friggin weird. Sorry about the length, there is a tldr at the bottom.

There could've been something even earlier but for sure the first time I remember feeling strangely drawn to chubby girls was in grade 3 (so around 9 years old) and there was this book about kids dealing with paranormal stuff, it was a series of books, and in this one they were dealing with a werewolf type character and they said something to the effect of 'they'll want to eat so-and-so because she's the fattest'. I just recall being very drawn to the idea of this girl being the most desirable because she was fat and there's a tie-in there for vore for me. I guess vore is a weird side kink I have that rears it's head every once in awhile, though I don't really care about the whole eating thing as much as the role fat can play in it, and I have never had any interest or fantasy about playing any role in vore myself, just an observer I guess. Looking back I think I could perhaps see another even earlier connection to dinosaur movies and stuff when i was like 4 or 5 where for some very strange reason I wanted the carnivorous dinosaurs to succeed in eating the main characters (esp. the female ones). Also just FYI I am not into some weird dinosaur stuff lol (also sorry, not to kink shame) but I can see how easily people get caught up in that I guess, seeing all that media as a kid. At any rate, I feel like what I like may have some connection to the idea of a female being fattened as a meal or being pursued as prey because she is fat or has fattened up. I think there’s something that appeals to me about her increased desirability and vulnerability having been fattened up. So yeah... like I said, human sexuality is friggin weird.

I believe there were some less memorable hints about my inclination toward chubby girls in the interim but in grade 7 (12-13) I cannot recall what things happened first but I do remember feeling a little aroused because of a short story we had to read where some guy was turning into a werewolf {lol of course, I swear to god I don't have a thing for werewolves or dinosaurs} and it described how he eyed a 'fleshy' part of his girlfriend's throat. Around this time as well, all the girl's my age were obviously developing, and some were gaining noticeable weight and that caught my eye. Most definitively, and I can't be sure why I decided to do it, (probably just curiosity) but one day I googled 'fat girl' or 'fat girlfriend', 'girl getting fat' or something and the rest is history. I think 2 or 3 websites kind of helped put a finger on what I liked, I remember something like lardbiscuit, dimensions, and some other one I can't remember but it was about the progression of some guy's girlfriend/wife as she got fat. From there on out female weight gain has been my sexual driver, like sex itself isn't even something that particlarly turns me on, it's just a means of release.

Today I really just like the idea of fattening up girls, seeing them indulge, gain weight, fulfilling my sexual ideals that a man is a strong, lean, hunter-provider figure and a woman is his soft, fat princess. I really like the amplified sexual di-morphism of that premise. Even in the mainstream, the sexually di-morphic characteristics that guys focus on are TnA, breasts and ass which are different from men's because of increased fat, so in my mind liking a fat girl kind of comes across as just amplified desire for a primary feminine characteristic.

(The end of this might get a little off topic but I don't think people will mind.)

In my late teens I sort of 'came out' to my buddy's gf who was somewhat into me, it was actually a love triangle kinda thing, long since worked out, anyway I showed her a belly play video of a girl that I can't remember the name but she wasn't even that big, (like 170-180 at 5'7-5'8) and buddy's gf was nice about it but she said 'honestly, and I don't want to hurt your feelings, but that's gross' I didn't really care, and she had issues with anorexia and body weight so I guess it should have been expected, lol she didn't really know exactly what I liked either, from then on she just thought I liked bellies.

Fast forward a bit to when my fiancee and I started going out around April-May 2011, I really can't remember how early it was, it might've been as early as that summer or it might've been way later but one night she commented that I probably wouldn't like it much if she lost weight which I reassured her I would find her beautiful and sexy at any weight, I don't remember if I just opened up that night or if it was little things over the course of some months but that was the point where it started to come out into the open for us. The reason she asked was because although I was actively avoiding being overt with my desires whenever we spooned I usually ended up cradling her little belly and subconsciously I imagine there was squeezing and fondling going on that indicated to her that I liked her plushness. She liked the attention and affection she got from me so she didn't mind and gradually it was open that I wanted to fatten her up and she would tease me with pics of her belly and what she was eating, eventually I got to take some pics and weigh and measure her, the first weight I have is from November 2012 180lbs at 5'4. I may have had an earlier one but i don't think so, I did have a memory stick get corrupted on me. She definitely wasn't any lighter than 170 when we started out, she says she was 160 but I doubt that, more likely she weighed that in 2009-2010 at best, supposedly she was 130 when she stopped growing in height but she seems to have always been on the thicker side to me. So anyway I didn't force it on her but she did indulge herself. She was 178 in March 2013 but up to 190-192 by August 2013 (she had been hittin the ice cream pretty hard). She remained around there as far as I can tell until probably late 2015 and definitely hit 200 by June 2016 adding another 5 by October. She was probably steady around there for a year and got up to 208 by December 2017. 210.8 in March 2018 so ~32lbs in 5 years. I didn't weigh her all summer and I wish I had but she was 212 on January 4 2019 and a week ago tomorrow she was 213.8 (February 19, 2019) so almost 36lbs in 6years. Wow I don't think I've measured her in a year but between March 2013 and December 2017 her belly went from 40 inches to 46 inches

178 - 2013 March         40" belly
190 - 2013 August
200 - 2016 June
205 - 2016 October
208 - 2017 December   46" belly
210 - 2018 March
212 - 2019 January
214 - 2019 February

I'm not actively feeding her, and she isn't trying to gain but she also isn't trying all that hard not to either. She has talked about losing weight and I said I would support her but she has also expressed how much she loves the attention she gets and the power she weilds being chubby. If she wants me to do something or she wants to trump a disagreement we're having she'll roll up her shirt and tease me with her belly and I am at her will. It doesn't help that she's inclined to be a fat girl, she's a bit of a gamer and bookworm, doesn't like to sweat and stays indoors quite a bit. So I would say it's almost like coming out to her just kind of naturally flowed into our relationship and if not overtly the reaction has essentially been positive.

TLDR: I was probably as young as 9 when there was any indication, and definite confirmation as of 13 y/o (mostly by internet). I have 'come out' to some people, didn't seem to think much of it, completely open with my fiancee.

 

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The first time I masturbated it was too a plus size lingerie magazine (this was the 90s). After that it was imaging cute girls of my age with little bellies. 

From around 13 I discovered porn and then the fetish and then my interests developed beyond plus size women and into feederism as well.

I still don't know if this fetish was born or if something happened in my early childhood to make me this way

 

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lol I'd say living single, oh noes she could blossom to be Kim Coles or Queen Latifah on her fattest days?  So many precedents for a sitcom, main black females with 2 plus size (and not stereotyped), no marriage/kids and the guys who were in secondary roles were fun too.  Was also fun to use create a wrestler in old smackdown wrestling and Tony Hawk 3 games for fat women too.

But seriously probably a part of me that wanted to help a woman to not feel dependent on a scale made me not care and then other things got bigger and softer too (thigh gaps are bullshit).

 

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There was some shitty fantasy book I was reading, where a fighter, a thief and a wizard are getting ready to rob a dungeon. The wizard has an ear ring to the hot red headed thief that let's you hear things incredibly well. to demonstrate, he leans in very close to the fighter and whispers incredibly quietly:

'I think thief is gaining weight.'

And life time of fetish right there.

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On 2/26/2019 at 9:43 AM, cupido said:

The first time I masturbated it was too a plus size lingerie magazine (this was the 90s). After that it was imaging cute girls of my age with little bellies. 

From around 13 I discovered porn and then the fetish and then my interests developed beyond plus size women and into feederism as well.

I still don't know if this fetish was born or if something happened in my early childhood to make me this way

 

I didn't need to use my imagination. It seemed all the girls in my school were gaining weight left and right LOL. Are you from the pre-epidemic era?

Actually, going through this thread again made me realize what I think was the defining moment. I used to train judo from ages 7 to 13. I don't remember when this happened but it was pre-puberty. I was rolling with the instructor's niece who was in my class. She was a pretty girl with a long dark braid down her back. For some reason I can't quite understand she wasn't wearing anything underneath her judogi, so after much grappling her belt became half undone so she ended up with her belt down her hips and her jacket open, displaying her torso. I remember feeling strangely embarrassed/horny because not only was she half naked in public but I was surprised to see she had a belly, which thin pretty girls weren't supposed to have. I guess there was some sort of domination subtext too. It was even more confusing because not only was I just discovering my sexuality, but in as much as I was sexual I was supposed to like boys, not girls.

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If i can make a comment...i'm amazed by the "rationality" that you guys use to explain this personal experience...sorry but i can't write mine cause i haven't discovered it yet

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On ‎3‎/‎4‎/‎2019 at 10:22 PM, The Bitch said:

I didn't need to use my imagination. It seemed all the girls in my school were gaining weight left and right LOL. Are you from the pre-epidemic era?

Actually, going through this thread again made me realize what I think was the defining moment. I used to train judo from ages 7 to 13. I don't remember when this happened but it was pre-puberty. I was rolling with the instructor's niece who was in my class. She was a pretty girl with a long dark braid down her back. For some reason I can't quite understand she wasn't wearing anything underneath her judogi, so after much grappling her belt became half undone so she ended up with her belt down her hips and her jacket open, displaying her torso. I remember feeling strangely embarrassed/horny because not only was she half naked in public but I was surprised to see she had a belly, which thin pretty girls weren't supposed to have. I guess there was some sort of domination subtext too. It was even more confusing because not only was I just discovering my sexuality, but in as much as I was sexual I was supposed to like boys, not girls.

I'm from the UK so we're not as fat. I think our nation became a bit fatter in the 00s which was good, but my school years were in the 90s so fat school mates were rare

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