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Just need advice on a situation with a friend (not related to gaining or bbw)


lk4life

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So I’m kinda bummed but my friend texted me this the other day randomly totally giving her space. It was just so random, I was texting her during lunch time and she semmed fine but when I texted her later. She responsed with “I dont feel like talking right now. Im not mad at you, it has nothing to do with you. I just dont feel like talking. I dont want to talk about it, and i dont wanna talk about it later. I just need to blow off some steam. So I will talk to you later, whenever that is. And im going to repeat this for you, not mad at you, it has nothing to do with you. I just need some time alone. I’ll talk to you some other time.” Is it my fault?  I’ve been kinda bummed since then 

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I know this is a late response, I can attest that for me, I sometimes do need some space. A lot of the times it's because I'm not sure how to process something in a way that I can outwardly express to anyone that asks. I would rather have time to digest what's going on and break it down and rationalize it before I even talk to anyone else about it. 

I can tell you, that she is not mad and probably has told you so because she does care about you as a friend and wants you to know that she does realize that you may worry about it. I would message her back and tell her something like, "That sucks that you're going through a hard time, but I just want you to know that if you would like to talk about it I am here, but I respect you needing time to deal with what you're going through."

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