lk4life Posted September 20, 2018 Share Posted September 20, 2018 So I’m kinda bummed but my friend texted me this the other day randomly totally giving her space. It was just so random, I was texting her during lunch time and she semmed fine but when I texted her later. She responsed with “I dont feel like talking right now. Im not mad at you, it has nothing to do with you. I just dont feel like talking. I dont want to talk about it, and i dont wanna talk about it later. I just need to blow off some steam. So I will talk to you later, whenever that is. And im going to repeat this for you, not mad at you, it has nothing to do with you. I just need some time alone. I’ll talk to you some other time.” Is it my fault? I’ve been kinda bummed since then Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
IG-89 Posted September 20, 2018 Share Posted September 20, 2018 They said they aren’t mad at you twice. Sometimes people just need some alone time. Goddess shar 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
invaderzim81 Posted September 24, 2018 Share Posted September 24, 2018 No space is needed sometimes your friend is probably going through something that they don't want to bother you with so just let them blow off the steam and be there for them when they are ready Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ayumi_Chan Posted September 29, 2018 Share Posted September 29, 2018 I know this is a late response, I can attest that for me, I sometimes do need some space. A lot of the times it's because I'm not sure how to process something in a way that I can outwardly express to anyone that asks. I would rather have time to digest what's going on and break it down and rationalize it before I even talk to anyone else about it. I can tell you, that she is not mad and probably has told you so because she does care about you as a friend and wants you to know that she does realize that you may worry about it. I would message her back and tell her something like, "That sucks that you're going through a hard time, but I just want you to know that if you would like to talk about it I am here, but I respect you needing time to deal with what you're going through." Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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