Is weight gain the driving factor to your arousal?

[smax666]

All those things are very nice and exciting, but what I find the most erotic is when a woman changes so much to become not recognizable by people who haven't seen her in a while. In 10 years my woman went from 140 to 190 and she changed clothes, hair, job-role (but it was all a very slow process). Me and the people who constantly see her, don't realize how MUCH is changed (unless when we see old pictures), but the other day, in her office arrived a female coworker who haven't met her for years. This coworker introduced herself and my woman told her that already they met. She looked very carefully at my woman and asked: "How many childred did you have? Three, four?". "Just one" she replied.

That's what I find very erotic! :-)

[smax666]

2 hours ago, Vladimir Putin said:

Heh, that "How many children did you have" was consciously pouring sand on the wound. How old is your woman? Does she wear her hair shorter? I've noticed many women tend to cut her hair short when they put on weight, for some reason.

She's 43. And yes, she has short hair. She started to cut em short few years ago (I ignore the reason...). That line was told to criticize her, for sure. And that's another thing I find erotic, women "pouring sand on the wound" to other women because of their weight...