serafis Posted November 10, 2017 Share Posted November 10, 2017 Does anyone else get frustrated by the lack of people in this community living nearby to them? I come from Norwich, Norfolk, United Kingdom and there is a huge lack of people involved in this community. every website on I’m constantly searching to see if there are others nearby to norwich, it just seems so unlikely that there’s only like 10 people mostly guys in this region. I don’t know why I’m asking this, I just wanted to see if I’m not alone in this thought. John Smith 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Bmo944 Posted November 10, 2017 Share Posted November 10, 2017 I can empathize. serafis and John Smith 1 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Smithsonius Posted November 11, 2017 Share Posted November 11, 2017 20 hours ago, serafis said: Does anyone else get frustrated by the lack of people in this community living nearby to them? I come from Norwich, Norfolk, United Kingdom and there is a huge lack of people involved in this community. every website on I’m constantly searching to see if there are others nearby to norwich, it just seems so unlikely that there’s only like 10 people mostly guys in this region. I don’t know why I’m asking this, I just wanted to see if I’m not alone in this thought. If you're in the UK then your best bet for socialising/dating with women is living in or close to a high density city area (I'm talking London, Birmingham, Manchester kinda size). Have a feeling this is probably the case internationally to be fair, but as a UK resident I can relate. Particularly dating wise as you are taking the small active community size and then further reducing by preference and that's without all the other general friendship/relationship variables to do with compatibility. So complex... 😩 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
shady-j Posted November 11, 2017 Share Posted November 11, 2017 You're within a couple hours of London and Cambridge. There's a shitload of people in this community there. TBQH, other than California/NYC you're probably relatively close to the best area in the world for this community. mrfatfatfatlover 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
serafis Posted November 14, 2017 Author Share Posted November 14, 2017 It is only really worthwhile doing as you say shady if you’re earning a decent wage and can drive. There are are other factors. As mentioned by others but I’m talking about immediate area of about 30 miles as that’s what my situation allows currently :/ Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
hiro Posted November 14, 2017 Share Posted November 14, 2017 Either change your situation or change yourself. Neither is easy, but the less time you spend wishing there were more people close to you and the more time you spend fixing the problem, the better. If you can be happy with dating normal people, do that. If you need to find someone who is into your kinks, get the ability to travel. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Recommended Posts
Create an account or sign in to comment
You need to be a member in order to leave a comment
Create an account
Sign up for a new account in our community. It's easy!
Register a new accountSign in
Already have an account? Sign in here.
Sign In Now