Guest qwerty111 Posted April 8, 2017 Share Posted April 8, 2017 I posted here before while I was in my last relationship - it's been quite some time and it didn't work out, unfortunately. I took a break from dating, but recently I decided it's time to try again. I was never really into dating apps, but I finally managed to check out tinder - a bit because from curiosity, a bit seriously - and I quickly matched with this girl. We've been on two dates and I hope it will continue, although I still cannot really stop thiking she is too attractive for me to be true and I'm not sure she wants more. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest smiling_Mike Posted April 8, 2017 Share Posted April 8, 2017 Dude don't think that. Be confident in yourself or you will definitely lose her. If you got one girl that beautiful once then you can for sure do it again. Besides if you feel unconfident about certain things about yourself then maybe you can use that as a base to improve yourself. Such as say maybe you're not in the best shape well then maybe you can go and workout and lift weights. Remember you attracted her somehow and that she saw something in you that was worth being around and that you have a specific value as a person nobody else can give. Overall just have fun with her instead of worrying about losing her which will make you more fun to be around and if you have an insecurity that you can work on with self development and confidence building then go and do it. You are enough for her but you can always work on yourself for yourself so you can feel good Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest smiling_Mike Posted April 8, 2017 Share Posted April 8, 2017 She is really beautiful though I will say so hats off to ya brother. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest qwerty111 Posted April 8, 2017 Share Posted April 8, 2017 1 hour ago, smiling_Mike said: Dude don't think that. Be confident in yourself or you will definitely lose her. If you got one girl that beautiful once then you can for sure do it again. Besides if you feel unconfident about certain things about yourself then maybe you can use that as a base to improve yourself. Such as say maybe you're not in the best shape well then maybe you can go and workout and lift weights. Remember you attracted her somehow and that she saw something in you that was worth being around and that you have a specific value as a person nobody else can give. Overall just have fun with her instead of worrying about losing her which will make you more fun to be around and if you have an insecurity that you can work on with self development and confidence building then go and do it. You are enough for her but you can always work on yourself for yourself so you can feel good well, I know all this, but still there is this feeling, because she is so attractive - but it's something in the back of my head and I know it's completely irrational I will not it influence antything - especially I am really not insecure about women, looks etc It's also that I think she is attractive to guys which are not usally into fatter girls - well, she is not really that overweight, she is just very curvy. And she is very affirmative about it, it's another case of a girl who used to be skinny during teen years and who gained a lot of weight quite rapidly. I think she is the most confident girl I ever knew (and she is only 21). Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
maxmoon Posted April 10, 2017 Share Posted April 10, 2017 Damn, I didn't realize it was still possible to get a date on Tinder. I get maybe 2 or 3 matches a week and none respond :\. Cute girl though, I hope it works out for you! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
John Smith Posted April 10, 2017 Share Posted April 10, 2017 Just do it. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lex112 Posted April 10, 2017 Share Posted April 10, 2017 Sure she wants! All girls wonna to be fucked good. They won't say it themself it's the thruth also. If you're selfconfident enough than you can just kiss her in her lips Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
{}{}{} Posted April 10, 2017 Share Posted April 10, 2017 Posting photos of a woman on this forum having been on two dates... If you want it to last, start out with some respect, it goes a long way. aastark, naranja, Steviehull and 5 others 8 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest smiling_Mike Posted April 21, 2017 Share Posted April 21, 2017 How'd it go qwerty Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mickloud Posted April 22, 2017 Share Posted April 22, 2017 I met my fiancé on Tinder, so it definitely works if you give it a proper try (though that was over 2 years ago, no idea if people still use it). I'll 2nd what people are saying about confidence. The idea of someone being "out of your league" is kinda nuts, and people who think this way are probably not worth your time/effort. If you have sufficient mutual attraction, good chemistry, similar values/interests, complementary strengths/weakness, and you're both all around decent people, then you should get on fine. However, sometimes even that's not enough, and in those cases, its out of your hands. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest trolo Posted April 23, 2017 Share Posted April 23, 2017 21 hours ago, mickloud said: I met my fiancé on Tinder, so it definitely works if you give it a proper try (though that was over 2 years ago, no idea if people still use it). I'll 2nd what people are saying about confidence. The idea of someone being "out of your league" is kinda nuts, and people who think this way are probably not worth your time/effort. If you have sufficient mutual attraction, good chemistry, similar values/interests, complementary strengths/weakness, and you're both all around decent people, then you should get on fine. However, sometimes even that's not enough, and in those cases, its out of your hands. Although I agree with you, I have to admit that girls on Tinder ,may also have some well-hidden mental flaws. I met my ex girlfriend on Tinder and everything was fine until she told me that she never loved me and also told almost none of her family/friends of me. I was quiete suspicious about that when we were still together. So also the nice/friendly/cute looking girls there can be quite a pain to the ass. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mickloud Posted April 26, 2017 Share Posted April 26, 2017 On 4/23/2017 at 10:19 AM, trolo said: Although I agree with you, I have to admit that girls on Tinder ,may also have some well-hidden mental flaws. I met my ex girlfriend on Tinder and everything was fine until she told me that she never loved me and also told almost none of her family/friends of me. I was quiete suspicious about that when we were still together. So also the nice/friendly/cute looking girls there can be quite a pain to the ass. Sure, but that's more of an issue with dating in general. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
extra_m13 Posted April 26, 2017 Share Posted April 26, 2017 jackpot ! thanks for posting Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest TJHooker Posted April 27, 2017 Share Posted April 27, 2017 Shes really pretty. Don't worry man you got this Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
KFD Posted May 5, 2017 Share Posted May 5, 2017 On 4/9/2017 at 11:57 PM, lex112 said: All girls wonna to be fucked good. ...And this is why we have 300 pound man hating feminists... @{}{}{}: Spot on! However, there is a certain amount of degeneracy with this entire site's existence... {}{}{} 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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