belly1ov3r Posted January 8, 2017 Share Posted January 8, 2017 So I met my girlfriend on a feedist social media site, but recently she wants to ditch feederism altogether and have a vanilla relationship between two larger people (we are both big people). However, I still sense that she has a sexual attraction to food because intimate feeding still turns her on. I, however, would love to have a feedist relationship, but care about her so much that I can also work towards making this work. So I guess what I'd like from all of you is some advice on how to approach bringing up food around her and how I should act around her. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest MUSEic Posted January 8, 2017 Share Posted January 8, 2017 You should respect her wishes, and if the time comes later, then reintroduce this aspect of your relationship. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
shady-j Posted January 8, 2017 Share Posted January 8, 2017 It's hard to give you any advice without knowing what you're into. Do you just want to feed her? Do you want to make her gain weight? What exactly is she not willing to do that you want to get out of this relationship? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
belly1ov3r Posted January 8, 2017 Author Share Posted January 8, 2017 MUSEic - Yeah, that's really good advice because I feel like she's just in a phase right now because she's on a big health kick. shady-j - I'd love to feed her, and any weight gain that happens would just be a pleasant bonus moreso a necessity. The thing that she doesn't want to do right now is have feedism be a part of the reason why we're together or a lifestyle. I think she's viewing feedism as strictly forcing weight gain on someone rather than a wide scope revolving around sexualizing food and larger bodies. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
shady-j Posted January 8, 2017 Share Posted January 8, 2017 Well, people still need to eat food even if they're trying to lose weight. I'm sure you could find a way to feed her without seeming to her like you're trying to fatten her up, so to speak. Communication is key though, maybe she's just turned off by being fed, in which case her turn off trumps your turn on. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
belly1ov3r Posted December 27, 2018 Author Share Posted December 27, 2018 Mods, please delete Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
finallyfat Posted December 27, 2018 Share Posted December 27, 2018 Shut up. Don't delete. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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