So i went to a "skinny" strip club again

[lostonline040]

for the first time in four years or so. My friend and his wife were visiting from out of town and i had the good idea to double date at the strip club.

now mind you, both wives were into it and open minded and had a lot of fun. So did my friend. His taste in women is rather simplistic and not very nuanced for better days or worse.

i however did not. I kept having to stop myself from putting my chin in my hand lest i offend the ladies but wow, three years of finally coming to terms with my preference for BBWs(+) has illuminated something else i think: That im losing my attraction to "normal" thin women.

where other people saw gorgeous hot ladies waving their fully nude hard bodies in your face i saw skinny plastic girls with their flat boring mons pubi and airbrushed legs and thighs ripped straight from the pages of Playboy with hard unappealing stomachs without any trace of the soft warmth of even a paunch to say nothing of a belly.

only one caught my eye and it was a pear shaped girl with stretch marks on her very round wipe hips and slight dimpling on the backs of her thigh and butt. Mind you, she was no BBW, not even a "chubby", but it was just enough to be enticing that this here was a real life woman and not some fake porn star who stepped through my tv screen

all in all an interesting experience, albeit jarring. I think i learned something about myself but i worry -- have i, literally, fetishized all this?

[Guest rurusimple]

I have had similar instances like that. I can appreciate a woman for their defining looks and proportions. But I have had the typical joking jabs at my sexuality because I wasn't drooling over those women like my friends did but that was some time ago. I have since told everyone my preference and much to my surprise the amount of people that stuck around. I guess I just surround myself with good people.

[scissortooth]

I think you are pretty ok. You just got tired of Playboy looks thrown into your face from everywhere around. I wouldn't be surprised if that's what got us into liking fat gals in the first place... Me, I can appreciate a slim female body sometimes if it involes a pretty face and doesn't have any rough edges or, especially, protruding bones, but it's definitely not  what makes my heart beat faster. 

[Wagimawr]

I mean, it is a strip club. Women there are encouraged to look a certain way.

A better test might be a beach (or even a nude beach) and see if any thinner figures catch your attention.

Then when they don't, you might have more options for enjoying the view.

[Wagimawr]

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Edited May 29, 2016 by Wagimawr
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[stubblesticker]

Aw man, last year I was in London on a business trip and decided to hit up a strip club with my colleague. I was in the same boat... just did absolutely nothin' for me.

[Guest shegotfat]

I've only been to a strip club once in my life, and a couple of the dancers were out of shape. I actually convinced my boyfriend to go. Of course you know who my eyes were wandering to. I even said out loud "they're quite out of shape for strippers, they have bellies" because it turned me on. He seemed a bit embarrassed by my comment, like there was something wrong with the fact that those out-of-reach temptresses were more out of shape than me, and that turned me on even more.

[biglover89]

Had the same experience some years ago, the women there just didn't do it for me.