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Were you ever attracted to thin women?


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Hmm I wouldn't say I've ever been conventionally 'attracted' the skinny women. Yes I've always been able to see the beauty in thin women but I find for me the most attractive thing is the process of gaining weight, so really I guess they could potentially be any size (although I definitely prefer them to be bigger lol). So for instance, say there was a skinny girl that I knew who was stick thin with nothing on her. I wouldn't find her attractive. However if she gained just a little bit of noticeable weight, like just a tiny little pudgy belly or perhaps some clothes that don't quite fit as well as they used to but are still considered very thin, then I would start finding them attractive.

However that's really fueled by the idea of them rather than their actual looks.

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Yes. I am attracted to tiny women who weigh very little. My GF for 6 weeks in 2017 was 5'4 and about 112 pounds and loved loved loved to have sex, she even brought a vibrator in her backpack on our first date. I am also helplessly attracted to bodybuilders, though I've never been to bed with one, just admired from afar.

This along with very tall women, very short women and women with hundreds of pounds of flab hanging from their bodies, all dotted with cellulite and stretch marks.

What turns me off is when fat women lose weight, it's like a light switch that makes my dick die. 

 

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Like many other posters in this thread, I definitely respond to the aesthetic appeal of some appealing thin women. That is different from really lusting after them, however. There isn't the same visceral sexual draw for me.

That said, I did fall desperately in love with an average-weight woman in college. It never went anywhere but it was a powerful and genuine thing. She was extremely intelligent and sophisticated and just blew me away on an intellectual and emotional level. I don't imagine there would have been any trouble "performing" if we'd progressed into a proper romantic relationship.

 

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When I was 21 I was in a rock band and, by neccessity after one particular gig, needed to crash on the couch at someone's house. My host's younger sister, about my age, came out and joined me - we knew each other for some time and had flirted, and she frequently came to our shows - and we made out furiously, then fucked and it is still to this day one of the hottest sexual experiences I ever had. She was bony as hell, with an angular, thin face, but she was just so hungry for me, kissing me so deep and digging her nails into my back and her hip bones jabbing me and her long legs in the air while we furiously fucked. At that point I was just so turned on that nothing mattered, you know? Like it was an almost spiritual experience, just animal passion, two young creatures doing what nature intended to populate the planet. She was like a fucking skeleton. Funny thing is I got together a few years later with an equally skeletal, tall German woman and nothing, I couldn't do anything in bed with her, and this time the hip bones were painful, not sexy at all. 

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Unlike most people here, I was always incapable of being truly attracted to thin women. The last time I had a “crush” on a pretty-faced thin girl with was 8th grade. Then I discovered the magic of masturbation and immediately realized that I only had sexual feelings for bigger girls. And if I find out that a BBW porn star lost a bunch of weight, it bothers me so much that I can never look at any of her content again. I literally stopped buying porn a while back because so many actresses have lost weight and their old vids are now too emotionally painful for me to watch. What a dumb waste of money. Oh, and weight loss commercials trigger me. My dad was so fucking mean to me about weight as a kid and it traumatized the shit out of me. 

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On 10/17/2019 at 8:42 AM, Der Käfig said:

I know this thread is super old but I was wondering if other people have had the same experiences as me; I’m 22 years old, I have a weight gain fetish, and I started liking bigger girls when I hit puberty. On one hand I recall being genuinely attracted to women whom I *assumed* were around 160lb, but my family is super uptight about health so I probably guessed low in order to make myself feel better. I thought of myself as someone who likes “chubby” but not “fat”. Nowadays, virtually all the models/pornstars I like are closer to 250 lbs and the ones I used to look at now seem way too thin for me. And in person I am often turned off by women who seem like they might be around 300, although I occasionally watch porn with women that size. So, do you guys think that my preferences got bigger and bigger over time due to porn, or do you think that I have just finally come to terms with what I truly liked all along ? 

 

I think the characteristics of the weight gain fetish may lead to liking more extreme weights over time, because at some point you stop drawing the line where 'it's enough weight now' and just keep wanting more. 

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3 hours ago, Heart and Mind said:

I think the characteristics of the weight gain fetish may lead to liking more extreme weights over time, because at some point you stop drawing the line where 'it's enough weight now' and just keep wanting more. 

Because most people are liking the most extreme weights but later??

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Aesthetically I can appreciate a muscular or in shape pretty girl or woman.  It is not my ideal and certainly not what arouses me.  I have always visualized the pretty thinner women gaining a bunch of weight to look that much sexier in my eyes.  I had thinner women growing up but they never made me want to go for round 2 or 3 in a in the bedroom in a given night.....I almost needed that soft plush figure to get me excited and aroused again and the chunkier girlfriends could always do that. Mix in them gaining weight like most all of my girlfriends did and I turned erotic as hell.  

As I got older I have definitely had an increase in weight which I think is ideal and it has probably gone from 150 lbs. to 300 + lbs. over time. Not that anything g in between is bad but I definitely have the craving for more lbs. gained all the time.

I actually feel like weight gain and everything that revolves around it is the major factor in arousal for me these days. 
 

My wife is 5’ 3” and probably around 170 lbs. currently down from her highest which was a bit over 200 lbs.  I used to think her ideal weight for me when we were dating would have been 150-160 lbs. boy have things changed I think she would look so seductively hot at 300+ lbs. now.

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My tastes did not change as I got older, I just realized with greater clarity my behavior in relationships.

Always I find beautiful (read lively, talented, spiritual, sexy) attractive at any size and under ideal circumstances I suffer the illusion that I could marry any of these beautiful women regardless of size.

However, the most important thing I have learned about me is:  where do I go for comfort on a bad day?

When times are at their worst, I crave a large and growing partner.  I have concluded that this would be the most enduring relationship for me and I am wasting everybody's time fooling around with "normies" and exposing them and myself to my daydreaming of their being fatter.

This is a good thread, thanks for breathing life into it again.

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On 11/11/2019 at 6:45 AM, Heart and Mind said:

I think the characteristics of the weight gain fetish may lead to liking more extreme weights over time, because at some point you stop drawing the line where 'it's enough weight now' and just keep wanting more. 

Well, although I was looking at more “clean cut” women like Tara Lynn online, in real life that wasn’t quite the case; i remember being pretty intrigued by girls with big guts and back rolls as far back as 5th grade, and insanely turned on by them by the time I was in 7th grade. Both at school and on TV. And, when I started looking at videos of women in the mid 200s in my late teens, I was able to masturbate much more quickly (used to take me over 30 minutes almost every time). Lastly, while I have met some fat girls in real life whose bodies REALLY turned me off, I am also starting to remember some times when some very big girls turned me on in real life and I was a little surprised because I thought they were above my limit. So I’m actually pretty convinced now that I was just repressing my desires back when I thought I liked “chubby, but not fat”. I did likue fat. I spent way too long trying to write this comment but it actually brought up some old memories and helped me work through some of my sexual confusion. Lucky me, I guess.

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