Edmund_1 Posted December 3, 2013 Share Posted December 3, 2013 And I text her all the time, though usually when I'm drunk, which I am pretty regularly. I don't know why I always text her specifically, but she's really supportive and almost always makes time to talk to me when I need someone to talk to. I think I might love her, but at the same time, I think that might be the booze talking. I've kind of tried to tell her how I feel, but it was just part of many drunken rambling. I'm not sure what to do about her, does anyone have any advice? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
vennie Posted December 3, 2013 Share Posted December 3, 2013 Well, you know, try thinking about this stuff (specifically her) when you're not drunk for once Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ma_Maison Posted December 3, 2013 Share Posted December 3, 2013 Do you talk with her when you're sober, or only when you're drunk? If you don't have much of a relationship outside of your alcohol induced stupor, there's a pretty good chance it's just lust. However that doesn't mean it's too late to start getting to know her while you are not intoxicated. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
vennie Posted December 3, 2013 Share Posted December 3, 2013 Do you talk with her when you're sober, or only when you're drunk? If you don't have much of a relationship outside of your alcohol induced stupor, there's a pretty good chance it's just lust. However that doesn't mean it's too late to start getting to know her while you are not intoxicated. Talking to women when not drunk? Crazy talk, woman! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ma_Maison Posted December 3, 2013 Share Posted December 3, 2013 Talking to women when not drunk? Crazy talk, woman! Ehh.. good point, actually. I can talk with men no problem. Women? It's better when I'm inebriated. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
vennie Posted December 3, 2013 Share Posted December 3, 2013 Ehh.. good point, actually. I can talk with men no problem. Women? It's better when I'm inebriated. I don't drink myself. I use chloroform on them. Works every time. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ma_Maison Posted December 3, 2013 Share Posted December 3, 2013 I don't drink myself. I use chloroform on them. Works every time. Remind me to never stand within arms reach of you, Vennie. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ayumi_Chan Posted December 3, 2013 Share Posted December 3, 2013 I don't drink myself. I use chloroform on them. Works every time. This definitely doesn't surprise me. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Heart and Mind Posted December 3, 2013 Share Posted December 3, 2013 Remind me to never stand within arms reach of you, Vennie. You've talked to him over the internet, that's enough, he'll find a way to get to you. It was nice to have you here though ;D Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Edmund_1 Posted December 3, 2013 Author Share Posted December 3, 2013 Luckily I haven't gotten to the point of breaking out the chloroform yet. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Edmund_1 Posted December 4, 2013 Author Share Posted December 4, 2013 First of all, while sober decide how you actually feel about her. You don't wanna tell her you feel one way and then realize you actually don't and have to hurt her if she has any feelings for you. Also, any serious conversations about your feelings for her should probably be had while you're sober. I doubt any girl is gonna take any drunken ramblings too seriously. But that's just it, even if I manage to puzzle out how I actually feel, I am absolutely abysmal when it comes to being emotionally honest while sober, and honestly, I'm not much better drunk. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ma_Maison Posted December 4, 2013 Share Posted December 4, 2013 But that's just it, even if I manage to puzzle out how I actually feel, I am absolutely abysmal when it comes to being emotionally honest while sober, and honestly, I'm not much better drunk. Then it sounds like you need to work on yourself before you even start to think about adding another person to your life. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Edmund_1 Posted December 4, 2013 Author Share Posted December 4, 2013 Then it sounds like you need to work on yourself before you even start to think about adding another person to your life. You're probably right, but I'm not even sure where to start with working on me, in case you couldn't tell, I'm kind of a mess. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ma_Maison Posted December 4, 2013 Share Posted December 4, 2013 You're probably right, but I'm not even sure where to start with working on me, in case you couldn't tell, I'm kind of a mess. Totally understandable. I've been there myself. It's a long process, but once you start it, it's worth it. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Edmund_1 Posted December 4, 2013 Author Share Posted December 4, 2013 Totally understandable. I've been there myself. It's a long process, but once you start it, it's worth it. Since you seem to have gone through it already, could you tell me how you started? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mesmeric Posted December 4, 2013 Share Posted December 4, 2013 I hope she doesn't come within 100 feet of you until you've sobered up. Nut up or shut up. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ma_Maison Posted December 4, 2013 Share Posted December 4, 2013 Since you seem to have gone through it already, could you tell me how you started? Honestly, it's been so long ago, that I don't even remember. I know it all started with me deciding I'd had enough of the state I was in and the life I was living. It's been well over 5 years now, and I'm still working on it. My story isn't the same as yours, so it all kind of depends on circumstances, mate. However, if you feel like having a friendly talk in private, please feel free to message me and we can go into more depth on this conversation. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
KFD Posted December 4, 2013 Share Posted December 4, 2013 Edmund, I'm going to echo Mamaison's sentiments here. Grow a pair, and accept that you like her even though for whatever reason you have to be drunk first, or grow a pair, accept the fact that you're a mess (who isn't, honestly), and take control of your life. Make excuses, or follow your passions. Your call. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Edmund_1 Posted December 4, 2013 Author Share Posted December 4, 2013 I hope she doesn't come within 100 feet of you until you've sobered up. Nut up or shut up. Direct. I like it. Yes, mam. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
pouty_princess Posted December 4, 2013 Share Posted December 4, 2013 I don't drink myself. I use chloroform on them. Works every time. Thats how we first met and had our first set of 5 babies together Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ma_Maison Posted December 4, 2013 Share Posted December 4, 2013 Thats how we first met and had our first set of 5 babies together Gurl, you're havin' litters? Might want to have a closer look at that DNA. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
vennie Posted December 4, 2013 Share Posted December 4, 2013 Thats how we first met and had our first set of 5 babies together I remember that day fondly, love. That first time chloroforming you was really special. I still have the cloth I used Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Brutenga Posted December 6, 2013 Share Posted December 6, 2013 I would honestly say the first step is to stop hittin the booze so hard. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
skyhigh541 Posted December 6, 2013 Share Posted December 6, 2013 Talk to her sobet then see uf u love her Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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