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Cassandra Craves

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As some of you may know, my in-person feeder / feedee relationship ended. It turns out there are some feeders who want to enjoy all the pleasure of your growing body without feeding you! This is the puzzling part for me. I could never quite understand why my feeder complained about getting me food when he went out to get his own. But he also complained when I wasnt gaining any more weight. Moral of the story is this: if your feeder takes issue with feeding you regularly, through actual food or money for food - it is time to cut that feeder loose! 

Thanks for all the support on here ❤️

XoXo Cassandra Craves

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7 minutes ago, Cassandra Craves said:

it is a shame, they want the teasing and the weight gain but they don't want to contribute to it! 

He seems like the exact opposite of my first feedee: neither a friend nor a girlfriend and refuse to be either of those in spite whining I used to woo her, complain when I stopped to do so, speak out about how she want to grt bonafide obese but didn't like the ongoing changes someday then get overjoyed the other day nay second, enjoyed the teasing, attention and snuggling but was at the end a prick-teaser then without even knowing, she make believe anyone we're in couple or worst married just to prevent any suitress from flirting me. 🙄 

A waste of time. I'm sorry for you, yey simultaneously glad you'd leave that toxic person. Bipolarism and reluctance are not made to co-exist wity feederism, especially in "situationships" or any form of coupling affair.

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i guess it can go both ways...he was actually my boyfriend and he paid for our apartment among other things, but it was also bothersome when he would eat in front of me without sharing or become irritable when I asked him to get us both food. How you call me a piggie and then NOT FEED ME LIKE ONE!  Ideally, someone who knows how to cook would have been an extra bonus but now I've been exploring feeders on the site to tease with custom videos, online feeder / feedee relationships is ideal for me now. 

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to be honest helps  in all situations but hard for many to be true, Strait on is the only option for me but many runs away instead. Hopes you find some better feeder for you,. I would love take care and give food for someone😍

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1 hour ago, Cassandra Craves said:

i guess it can go both ways...he was actually my boyfriend and he paid for our apartment among other things, but it was also bothersome when he would eat in front of me without sharing or become irritable when I asked him to get us both food. How you call me a piggie and then NOT FEED ME LIKE ONE!  Ideally, someone who knows how to cook would have been an extra bonus but now I've been exploring feeders on the site to tease with custom videos, online feeder / feedee relationships is ideal for me now. 

Behavior is a complex thing...I have  really blown situations in the past because I was overwhelmed and they were too powerful...but the most important element was that I did not know myself and I was not committed to what I needed in life so I would often not recognize it when it showed up.

This is a paradox: how can we fail to act in our own interest even when the opportunity to do so comes on a silver platter?

Years ago I attended a "chat" weekend (on line friends) on the East Coast. Here we were in a lovely old Victorian with a whole group of fat and eager feedees and our host had no food at home and had given no thought to how he was going to take care of 6-8 ssbbw's who were hungry and eager to party.

It almost like he was missing a piece of his brain. How could it be?

He wanted a 600 pound GF (as he had one in the past) but seemed unable to do anything about it,  even when it was in front of his face.

At least we are all here now and able to share about these things.

Thanks for the thread.

 

 

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I wish you would want me to movev there I would cook for guy an share my food with you heck I  want you fatter an outgrown your new clothes the day we bought them 

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